TANYA GARCIA: Tanggap ang anak ni Mark Lapid sa ibang babae || #TTWAA Ep. 191
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And then I remember after that, doon na ako medyo nakapagsalita.
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Magandang araw, Pilipinas at sa ating mga kababayan sa ibang bansa.
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Welcome to TikTok with Aster Amoyo.
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Sa araw na ito, mga kaibigan, ay isa na naman pong special na celebrity ang ating makakakwentuhan.
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She is in and out of showbiz.
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A lovely wife, the other half of Mark Lapid.
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A mother of three beautiful daughters.
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Mga kaibigan, the one and only, Tanya Garcia.
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Hello, nice to meet you.
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I'm good, I'm good.
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I know, I've been wanting to have you and Mark pero hindi tayo matuloy-tuloy.
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Hindi tayo matuloy-tuloy pero eto na.
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Ito na, the other half lang.
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Yes, part one pa lang.
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Pero may utang pa rin kayong dalawa ni Mark.
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Yes, may utang kami.
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Mark ha, one of these days.
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Oo, promise namin yan sa'yo, tita.
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Magmula nung mag-asawa ka, lalabas ka sa showbiz and then out na naman.
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What's the reason behind?
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Well, kasi tita, ang priority ko kasi talaga are my kids.
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And alam ng VIVA, that's why I'm so thankful to VIVA and Channel 7 and lahat-lahat ng mga nakakatrabaho ko,
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especially my management, VIVA, because they know na priority ko talaga ang family.
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And thankful rin lang ako kasi kahit alam nila, kahit alam ng VIVA, ng GMA, na priority ko, family ko,
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of course, siyempre pag may mga offers na ganyan na may mga magagandang stories talaga na hindi mo mahindihan,
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parang nakakahiya naman nung mag-know, kasi sa sobrang dami na, di ba, tita, ng mga artista ngayon,
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pero natatandaan ka pa rin nila.
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Hindi ka pa rin rin nakakalimutan.
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So, pag meron silang mga na-offer na sobrang gusto kong gawin, talagang hindi ako makapag-know, ginagawa ko.
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Pero marami rin akong mga hindi rin nagagawa because of unang-una yung time na hinihingi nila from me,
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hindi ko talaga kaya mag-commit ng...
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Like before, di ba, may mga lock-ins, mga gano'n.
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Lalo na yung tapings ng series, di ba?
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Yes, and yung tapings. Although ngayon, ang maganda na ngayon, tita, because hindi na siya, like before, na sobrang puyatan and then everyday talaga.
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Hanggang 12 na lang, yes.
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So, meron ako mga natatanggap, pero hindi ko pa rin talaga kayang mag-full-time talaga na ito lang.
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Ako hindi ko na talaga kayang gano'n kasi inuuna ko talaga ang kids ko. I have three girls.
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Yeah, three beautiful girls, di ba, na teenager na.
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Yung eldest ko is turning 17, tapos yung isa 13 and the other one is only 7.
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So, yung 7, medyo toko pa.
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Ang layo ng gap, ha?
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I lost two babies kasi in between my middle and the last.
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So, naka-tunos ka rin.
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Lima dapat, no? Lima dapat. Sana may boy doon, di ba?
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Yes, oo. Feeling ko nga baka boys yun, e.
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Oo, di ba? Pero meron na kayong nauna na sa heaven.
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Hindi ka naman pinagbabawala ni Mark Lapid na siyempre ang husband nito,
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o si Mark Lapid. Hindi ka naman pinagbabawala ni Mark.
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Hindi, tita. Actually, siya nga mas gusto niyang, sige, gawin mo pagka meron.
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Very supportive naman.
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Very supportive siya. Kung ano yung gusto kong gawin?
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Personal mong choice yun.
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O, na prioritize mo siyempre ang family mo, being a housewife. But they're all grown up now.
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So, this is the reason kung bakit bumabalik ka na naman.
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Pero yung youngest ko kasi she's only 7, yun ang medyo clingy talaga. Sa akin pa rin natutulog.
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Sa gitna pa rin namin.
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Kaya mahirap pa rin siyang iwan.
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Especially your husband, of course, working father. So, anong bading time yung mag-anak?
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We always go out of town. Pagka weekends, nasa Pampanga kami. Kasi weekdays, nandito kami sa Manila kasi dito nag-aaral yung mga bata.
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So, yun. He finds time naman, although sobrang busy niya ngayon kasi nag-aartista rin siya ngayon.
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Meron siyang batang tiyapo tapos he's still with Tiesa. So, medyo busy siya. Umiikot siya sa buong Pilipinas. Pero he finds time.
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Oo. Nababalansin naman yan.
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Nababalansin naman. Ako naman kasi talaga, kami naniniwala naman talaga kami. If meron kang priority at meron importante sa'yo, magagawa mo ng time. Diba? Time management.
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I don't know ha. Sorry, Sen Lapid ha. Kasi pag sinabing Lapid, babaero or playboy. But in your case, alam mo, with Mark, since she got married, parang wala akong alam na…
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Ibig lang sabihin, magaling ka mag-alaga. Diba?
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Hindi ko alam. O hindi namin alam. Sorry ha.
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Lagot siya sa akin dito.
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Wala kasi siya dito eh. O diba?
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Sobrang thankful ako na binigay talaga siya ni God sa akin because he is a really, really good, not just a good husband, a good father talaga to our three kids.
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Talagang he's very responsible. Talagang he takes time to be there and be present for the girls and for me also.
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Lalo na sa mga special occasions, diba?
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Yes, always, always. Sa school, parati siyang nandyan.
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Parati siyang nandyan. Pagka may mga presentation yung mga girls. Kasi prayer core naman talaga yung tita yan na makahanap ako ng mabait at saka talagang responsable yung asawa at saka tatay ng mga nanon.
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Kanina, sinabi ko sa intro, ito po yung una-unahang ka-love team ni Ding Dong Dantes. Hindi ba naligaw sa'yo si Ding Dong?
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Hindi talaga, tita.
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Hindi talaga? Kahit nagparamdaman lang?
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Kasi bata pa kami noon. Siyempre, wala naman ano noon. Actually, ang una niyang love team, tita…
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Si Antoinette. Si Tony. And then, pumasok lang ako nung paalis na si Tony.
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Pabalik, papunta ng States.
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Nagkahanap ang Viva ng kapalit niya for Anna Karenina. And then, pinag-audition nila ako doon. Kasi nanggaling ako sa Star Circle eh.
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And then, after noon, nakita na kami ng GMA. And nagsustart pa lang yung mga teleserye ng GMA noon. Meron silang bagong teleserye.
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Sana ikaw na nga. Nakakast na si Ding Dong for that teleserye, alam ko. And then, nagkahanap sila ng partner niya. So, pinag-audition rin nila ako doon.
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Ayun. So, dalawa ka agad.
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Anna Karenina. And then, sana ikaw na nga.
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Pero tumata kayo as a love team. Diba? Kasi dalawa nga. Actually, tatlo ang pinagtambalan niyo.
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Yes. After Twin Hearts.
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Yes. Twin Hearts.
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The third was Twin Hearts.
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How do you find Ding Dong? Eh, kasi ibang-iba na si Ding Dong. Ngayon, alayo nang nang narating. Diba?
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Well, I'm so happy for him. Kasi ever since naman, makikita mo na very dedicated siya sa work niya. At gusto niya talaga yung ginagawa niya. And he's really nice. He's a nice guy. And I'm happy for them.
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For Marian and Ding Dong. And sa family nila. Minsan, nagkikita kami. Minsan, nagkakausap pa rin kami. Nakaka-text ko pa rin siya. And Marian, nagkakamustaan. And ninong siya nung panganay ko.
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Okay. I see. So, kumpari mo. So, naging kumpari mo. Nakapag-guest ka na ba sa kanyang family feud?
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Nag-guest na ako.
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Nag-guest na ako.
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Pamila Mark, family ko. Pangang Kenko and my sister-in-law.
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Bawal pa kasi ang kids.
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So, nakapag-guest na ka na pala.
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Oo. Kasi kami ni Ding Dong, when we were working.
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I remember talaga. Parang sila ni Toni eh.
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I know. I know that.
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Yeah, parang may ganun eh. So, nagkatrabaho kami. Alam ko na na, okay, may girlfriend siya, ganyan. So, medyo, mas naging mag-barcada kami. Pinapakilala niya ako sa mga friends niya.
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Oo, parang magka-boyfriend ako.
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Kasi nakasama ko pa si Toni, tita, sa anak ko rin ni Nay.
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Naging kaibigan ko pa siya. Until now, we're still friends. So…
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She's back, di ba? In the Philippines.
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Yeah, she's back.
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She's back, she's here.
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So, yun. So, yun nung time na yun talaga. Parang magkaibigan. Mag-barcada lang kami ni Nay.
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Hi, Toni. If you're watching, sana magkakwantuhan tayo one of these days. Oo, di ba? She's so nice also.
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Di ba? What made you decide na bumalik, magbalik showbiz?
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Kasi ngayon, tita, like what I said earlier, parang sa daming dumadating na mga bagong artista, may mga offers pa rin eh. Ako minsan nga, hindi ko naman ako question, pero parang wow, no? Hindi pa rin nila ako nakakalimutan.
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Eh, parang nag-semi-retire na nga ako eh. Parang alam naman nila na ayoko na rin talaga. Pero meron pa rin. So, syempre blessing yan, di ba, tita?
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Yes, of course. Oo.
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So, there are some nga na kung ano-ano nang ginagawa para makuha.
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Para gusto mang work. Tapos eto ako dumadating, di ba? So, parang baka naman ang blessings na magtampo pag hinindihan mo lahat, di ba? And there are projects like what I just did now na talagang ang gaganda kasi, ang hirap hindian.
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What movie is this? This is Under Viva, right?
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Yes, I just did Sunny. It's actually, it's a Korean movie.
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It's a Philippine adaptation of Sunny. It's a Korean movie. It's a really feel-good movie na heartwarming siya kasi it's about barkada, about friendship.
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Yes, yes. Sinong makasama mo in the movie?
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Angelo De Leon, Kendy Panghelinan, Sunshine Dizon, Katya Santos, Ana Rosas.
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Tapos yung mga young generation naman?
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The younger ones in a heaven perhaps.
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Maralejo, Bea Benene, Ashley Diaz, Heart.
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So, galing. Galing kasi like matagal na rin walang ginagawang movies na si Vina, si Angelou at saka si Sunshine, di ba?
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Yes, actually nung nagkita-kita kami, nagsama-sama kami na napag-usapan nga na parang, uy parang comeback ng lahat ah.
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Kasi si Angelou, si ate Vina, mga matagal na talaga sa Viva yan. Si Ana, tapos ngayon lang ulit. Parang pinagsama-sama.
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Katya Santos and Miss Kendy Panghelinan.
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Si Katya at saka si Kendy, active sila eh.
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Yeah, medyo active. Pero Vina, Angelou, Sunshine, me and Ana, parang nung nag-usap-usap na.
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Parang comeback movie niyo ito. Ang ganda.
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And it's nice, it's nice.
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Oo. Who directed the movie?
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Directed Jal Zarate.
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Oh, I see. Anong namimiss mo sa showbiz?
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Actually yung pag-arte dito. Kasi di ba, parang ang dami mo nare-release na emotions, di ba?
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So, yun. Yan ang namimiss ko. At saka syempre, pag naka-cut now yung kamaradi.
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Yung kayo, yung mga chika niyo. Then you get to meet new people, mga friends.
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Yun yung mga nakakamiss. Ay, hindi nakakamiss yung mag-aantay ka na matagal. Pero ngayon nga, bawal na, di ba?
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Yes, yes. Anong qualities ni Mark para sabihin mo, siya ang the one?
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Alam mo, nakita ko kasi talagang sila yung family nila, they're very, very grounded and humble, di ba?
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Parang pati dad niya, parang iisipin mo, uy, sikat na artista, parang ganun, di ba?
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Kala mo, medyo mataas sila.
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No, they're very, very grounded and very humble. Yun yung actually nagustuhan ko kay Mark talaga.
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Yung love niya for his family.
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Makikita mo talaga yung close-knit talaga sila. Tapos yung respeto niya, respeto niya sa dad niya at saka sa mom niya. Ibang klase talaga.
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Paano ka napunta sa showbiz? Kasi I know you started with ABS-CBN, Star Magic. Star Circle pa at that time. Star Magic na ngayon.
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So, paano ka napunta sa showbiz?
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Actually kasi nakita lang ako ni, if you remember, Tito Jojo Veloso?
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Oo, yes. Oo naman.
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Siya ang naka-discover sa akin.
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Actually, sila ni Tito K. Seguerrero.
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Napaka-active pa rin niya hanggang ngayon.
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Sila ni Tito K. Seguerrero ang naka-discover sa akin. Nakita nila ako sa, I think, house ng isang model nila.
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Sabi lang sa akin, gusto mo ba mag-artista? Sama ka namin sa ABS. Gano'n lang talaga, tita. Sama ka namin sa ABS. Eh, I was like 15 or 14. Bata pa ako noon. So, parang ako, okay.
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Tapos, dinalanan nila ako sa ABS. And then, when they brought me to Mr. Freddy Garcia, I remember.
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Yeah, siya pang president at that time ng ABS.
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Yes. And siya ang nagbigay sa akin ng Garcia.
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Ah, after him. Oh, now I understand.
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Kasi ang real last name ko is Lytel.
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So, medyo foreign, di ba? Sabi niya, it's gonna be hard for people to pronounce it. Kasi yung spelling ng last name ko is like little pero with a Y.
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So, sasabihin daw nila, little. So, sabi niya, dapat yung madali lang, gamitin mo na Garcia. Sabi niya, kaya naging Garcia.
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Yes. And then, pinag-audition na nila ako for Star Circle.
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So, I was trained by Star Circle.
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Pumasok ka doon sa Star Circle batch 5.
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So, sino ang mga kapanabayan mo at that time?
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Baron. Mark Solis. Serena Dalrymple was batch 5.
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Oh, yes. Yes. Oo. Nag-asawa na rin. Okay.
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Kathleen Hermosa.
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And then, yung iba, parang hindi na sila masyadong active.
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At that time na nga hindi ka active, di ba? Because of your family nga. Siyempre, napapanood mo sila sa TV, yung mga kapanabayan mo. Anong nararamdaman mo?
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Masaya ako para sa kanila.
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At saka, siyempre, proud. Kasi, di ba, nakasabay mo sila when we were all starting. Tapos, makikita mo kung saan na sila nakarating and successful sila.
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Alam mo, sometimes when I bump into them, parang wala. Parang yung dati pa rin. Like si Lloydy, we bumped into each other in the mall. He was with his son. Ako naman with my daughter. Parang nagtawa na rin po kami.
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Oo. Mga anak na natin. Parang gano'n.
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Nakakatuwa naman.
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Nakakatuwa talaga.
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Pero, you were in your teens nung pumasok ka sa showbiz. Balikan natin ang pamilya mo. Pang-ilan ka sa pamilya mo?
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I'm the youngest.
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Ilan kayong magkakapatid?
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We're four. I have two older sisters, a brother, and then ako.
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Agad ka pinayagan ng parents mo?
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Oh my gosh. Hindi ko nga maalala. Kung nagpaalam ako noon eh. Oo naman. Oo. Parang wala naman…
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Wala naman question sa kanila.
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Naging supportive naman sila nung pumasok ka sa showbiz.
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Mahihiyain talaga ako, tita. Actually, hanggang ngayon naman mahihiyain ako. Hindi ko nga alam kung paano ako napunta sa ganitong mundo at paano ko pa rin siya nagagawa. Kasi nahihiya pa rin talaga ako.
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Sabi ko nga, ito na talaga yung fate ko. Ito yung destiny ko. Kasi parang kahit nga ayoko, nahihiya ako. Ayan pa rin, dumarating pa rin eh. Diba? Eh yung iba nga kung ano-ano talagang ginagawa para mapansin, makuha. Diba?
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Pero ako talaga, ang tawag nga nila ate Rose Garcia sa akin, reluctant actress. Kasi talagang mahihiyain talaga ako.
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Before, nung bago ako, parating nila sinasabi, uy, kailangan ma-PR ka sa showbiz. Kailangan marunong ka. Eh talagang, nami-misinterpret nilang supladaw. Kasi nahihiya lang talaga ako.
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Nahihiya talaga ako maunang mag-hibe. Siyempre as you age, doon mo lang nalalaman na hindi ka dapat mahiya. Dapat marunong ka munang rumespeto. Kasi yung iba ang tingin nila, parang bastos ka, suplada ka. Diba?
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I remember, there was a time na kahit pa paano naging close tayo. Diba?
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Yes. There are ano lang kasi talaga, tita, na parang kaya kong makipag-ano.
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Kaya iba talaga nang hihiya ako.
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Oo. Ang tagal nyo na rin mag-asawa. Of course, you just got married. You were together 4 years before you got married.
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So, 18 years together. Anong discovery nyo sa isa't isa?
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Ang dami, tita. Ganun pala talaga yun na yung pala mo kilala mo na pero everyday pa rin, marami kang malalaman about your partner.
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Siyempre pag nasa isang bahay na lang kayo, ang dami mong malalaman and it's really, it's an effort talaga pala talaga, no, to be in a marriage and to make it work.
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Siyempre pag bata tayo parang akala natin, oh, love kasi natin. Love lang. No eh.
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It's not all about love. Diba?
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It's not. It's not talaga. It's about parang hanggang saan ba ang kaya mo.
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How you take care of your relationship.
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How you take care of your relationship and how much you know also about yourself. Kasi kahit ako, ang dami ko palang nalalaman na, ay, kaya ko pala maging ganito. Ay, kaya ko palang hayaan na lang yung mga ganitong things. Yung parang mga ganyan.
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And hindi ko pala kaya pagka ganito. Ang dami mong nadidiscover.
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So, yun. Actually, being married is something that you have to work on talaga eh. It's not just being in love.
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Respect is number one. Communication talaga is the key. I really believe na you really have to talk.
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And you really have to tell him what you feel. Kasi iba talaga ang mga lalaki. Kala nila, ah, kala nila okay lang. Eh, tayo naman, diba parang gusto natin, dapat alam mo na.
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Yung mga few years namin.
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Yung mga unang years namin, medyo talagang nag-a-adjust talaga, tita. Prayers talaga for you to be okay.
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Kasi, syempre, kung yung mag-bestfriend nga, kung magkapatid nga, diba, nakakatampuhan. Ano pa yung everyday mong kasama.
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There will come a time talaga na parang, ah, kaya ko ba ba ito? Samahan ng ganyan. Kasi, syempre, may iba siyang values, iba siyang interests, ibang pagpapalaki sa kanya, iba rin yung sakin, diba.
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Pero yun nga, I think respect and communication talaga.
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That's very important.
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That's very important. And we really pray together. We have dreams together. We pray for each other. Tawag niya sa akin kasi, Pi. Pi, pinagdasal kita kanina, ha.
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Actually, nung bago pa lang kasi kami, alam niya na ako talaga, gusto ko maging princess.
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Ah, I see. Okay, I got it.
16:54.1
So, Pi, princess, oo. So, Pi.
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Sa kanya, prinsesa ka, yes. Ano naman ang tawag mo sa kanya?
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Or prince. Ah, okay.
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Ang cute. Ang cute naman.
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Was there a time na sinubok yung relasyon niyo at kamuntik mauwi sa hiwalayan?
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Yes, yes, tita. Actually, bago pa lang kami nun, diba, may lumabas na mga issues. Meron, you know.
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Oo. May Korean, diba, may lumabas na may anak siya doon.
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It's true. Meron siyang daughter na…
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Parang siyang pinakapanganay sa lahat.
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Pero iba kasi yung naging relationship nila. So, iba yung lumabas rin sa news noon.
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And that time, parang hindi pa alam ng family ko. Ako, I knew about it. He was open about it.
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Pero hindi alam ng family ko. So, syempre nagulat. Isa yun sa mga, I think, pinaka matinding pinagdaanan namin na he had to explain to my parents na ganito yung situation, ganito yung nangyari.
17:59.1
Nagkita-kita na sila?
18:03.1
Yung mga kaanak nyo?
18:05.1
Yes. Recently lang.
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And I think, isa yun sa mga…
18:08.1
But she's based in Korea?
18:09.1
She's based in Thailand, actually.
18:11.1
Isa yun sa mga answered prayer school.
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Kasi for the longest time, hindi sila, walang communication eh. After everything came out.
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How old is she now?
18:20.1
She's, I think, 19?
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Two years apart lang. Oo. Two years apart.
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And syempre, diba, tita? Ang mga bata naman, wala naman kasalanan yan.
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Of course. Of course.
18:29.1
Kasi talaga naniniwala ako. Walang may gusto naman na maging mapunta sa broken family or hindi naging okay yung parents. Diba?
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So ako, prayer ko yun ever since na sana pag dumating yung time, it will be easy for us. Especially for the kids.
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Kasi for the longest time, hindi.
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Pero when they were growing up, syempre yung internet. Diba?
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So ang maganda naman when I talk to my two old… Kasi the youngest, actually hanggang ngayon…
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Seven pa lang ngayon.
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Seven pa lang ngayon.
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Seven pa lang ngayon.
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Hindi pa ganon siya.
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Yung two girls, nung kinausap ko, nagulat ako. Alam nila…
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Kasi syempre, internet diba titi?
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Parang nag-aantay lang sila ng affirmation coming from, So yes.
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They were just waiting.
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And my eldest… Kasi yun very chill yun e.
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And how she explains things is very, maganda maganda how she said this. She said,
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You know Mom, it doesn't bother me.
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Kasi sabi ko, how do you feel about it?
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How do you feel towards your dad?
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Kasi baka magtampo or baka diba, hindi ko alam eh.
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Sabi niya, it doesn't bother us.
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You know that she follows.
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Tapos alam nila na nagfa-follow sa social media.
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Ako nga, hindi ko alam eh.
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Sabi ko, oh really?
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Yeah, because I checked her account.
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So I kind of knew that it was her already.
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And then nung nag-meet kami, nung pinakilala ko sila, okay naman.
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Nag-spend ba siya dito?
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Nag-vacation siya.
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Spending Christmas or New Year or the holidays?
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I think that was the summer.
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Parang after the pandemic na nga.
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It's not too long ago.
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So nagka-bond yung mga bata?
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I'm sure sa part ni Mark, buong-buo siya.
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Actually, yun rin naman yung dinadasal niya na sana pag nagkita sila, yung mag-aang lang.
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Maging okay lang.
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And even the kid, okay rin siya.
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At yun ang nangyari.
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Paano nyo na patch up yung, I'm sure,
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nagkakaroon na ng, the early part ng misyon,
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marriage nyo, paano nyo ito na save?
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Nag-uusap talaga kami.
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After, kunwari magtampuhan,
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after pag malamig na ang ulo ko or ulo niya,
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And then, yun nga, nasasabi namin na,
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sana next time huwag tayo biglang magre-react sa ganito.
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Sabihin mo muna yung ganito.
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O alamin mo rin muna na ganito.
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So yun, meron kami mga ganun.
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At saka naging honest siya sa'yo.
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Sinabi niya na sa'yo.
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Yes, he was very honest naman.
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Malaking bagay yun.
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Kasi mas mahirap yun sa part mo
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kung nalaman mo ito in the middle of the marriage na.
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And it could lead to separation kung sakasakali.
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Ako, I think that's why it was easy also for me to understand
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and to accept everything
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because nga, he was very honest about the situation.
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And I knew what I was getting into.
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Right, right, right.
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Ang hindi lang handa yung family mo.
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Kasi may konting,
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may gulo sila nun eh, ng girl.
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Siyempre, inaayos pa niya bago sana namin sasabihin sa parents ko
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tsaka sa parents niya.
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And then, she came out sa media,
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nagpa-interview siya nung time na yun.
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And I was pregnant noon.
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She's a Korean, right?
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Bed, ano pa ako nun, tita Bedre din ako.
21:46.8
I was bleeding kasi noon.
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Tapos, lumabas yun.
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So, sobrang stress.
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Thankful na lang rin lang ako kay God na at least habang maaga,
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meron na kami mga pinagdadaanan na gano'n.
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So, ngayon yung mga maliliit na bagay parang, oh, wala na eh.
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Ano isang bagay na iniiyakan mo?
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Fear of losing someone I love talaga.
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Pero umiiyakan na?
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In the middle of your marriage with Mark, may isang bagay ba na iniiyakan ka?
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Ay, ah, oo naman.
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Umabot pa sa point na sabi ko talaga sa kanya,
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sige na, bumuli ka na rin sa mommy mo.
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Parang gano'ng kadali, no?
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Kasi siyempre nung bago kami parang,
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kung ano yung nasanayan ko, kung ano yung nasanayan siya, eh siya...
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Pareho nag-a-adjust eh.
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Oo, pareho talaga.
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Siya nasanay siya na his mom is very, very hands-on sa dad.
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So, nung siyempre nung kami, eh ako, nasanay ako at 16 kasi tita, I was living on my own.
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So, ako lang, di ba?
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Very independent ka.
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Oo, very independent, condo living.
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So, parang kung ano yung food sa lunch, iinitin ko na lang sa gabi.
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Tapos hindi ako nagluluto kasi tita.
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So, yung mga things na gano'n.
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Iinahanap niya yung kung paano yung setup nila as a family na.
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Yung care ng mami niya sa daddy niya.
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Yes, na naghahanda.
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And siyempre may times na, there was one time na wala ako sa mood.
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Tapos parang sabi niya, ito na naman yung food.
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Ayoko, anong gusto mo?
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Hindi naman ako nagluluto.
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Yung little things na gano'n.
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Pero doon mo rin ma-re-realize na kailangan mo talaga rin...
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Mag-effort and matuto.
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At saka maging submissive.
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Kasi medyo maano rin talaga yung personality ko eh.
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Kasi nga I was on my own.
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So nung naging kami na, kailangan ko na, ah okay.
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Kailangan mo rin mag-serve dito.
23:33.5
Natuto ka bang magluto?
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Ah talaga? So marunong ka na magluto ngayon?
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Meron akong magluto pero hindi ako nagluto pa rin.
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Kasi makapampangan.
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Masarap sila magluto.
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Masarap nilang magluto.
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Si Mark ang nagluluto.
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Rinatry ko naman talaga.
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Rinatry ko yung best ko.
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I guess my best wasn't good.
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Pero yung luto kasi.
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Tapos titik mo naman yan.
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Ayaw lang niyo magalit ka.
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Ayaw lang niyo magalit ka.
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Kasi masarap sila magluto dito.
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Kasi paalam mo sila yung mga kapampangan.
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Kung ano yung makita nila sa pantry diba?
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Kahit ano pa yun. Kahit mga leftovers.
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Kaya nila gawa ng ano.
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Oo. Remedyohan diba?
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Sabi nga nung second daughter namin.
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So mom, we're just so lucky right?
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Daddy knows how to cook very well.
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Lalo na pag nasa ibang bansa kami.
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Kasi taga siya yung tagaluto. We won't get hungry right?
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At saka ako naman ang forte ko tita maglinis.
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I love cleaning the house.
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Yan ang ano ko talaga.
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Kailan ang vacuum ko sa bahay.
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Kasi talagang gusto ko naglilinis.
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That's good. Isa yun sa mga gustong gusto siguro ni Mark sa'yo.
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Oo. Pero minsan naiinis na siya.
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Pero organized to.
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Minsan naiinis na siya tita.
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Sobrang linis mo.
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Kasi sasabihin na naman.
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Even when we travel.
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Ano ako nga hanapin? May vacuum ba dito?
24:56.5
Doon sa tatlong Maria, may leaning na ba sila mag showbiz?
24:59.5
Siguro yung bunso.
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She's a dancer. Pero medyo mahihain rin yan eh.
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Yung second naman, she wants to be a lawyer.
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She's 13 pero alam na niya what she wants in life.
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Medyo mas ano yun.
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Mas planado yung life.
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Paano mo na sabi na interesado siya sa showbiz?
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Kasi ma-artist siya tita.
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Mahilig siya umarte sa bahay.
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At nagsabi siya talaga na gusto niya mag-artista?
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Sabi niya gusto niya maging singer.
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Gusto niya mag-perform.
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What about the two other girls?
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The eldest is a dancer.
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Nagpa-perform yun in July nga.
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She's gonna represent the Philippines for World of Dance.
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Sila ang champion.
25:40.5
Hip-hop bang ano niya?
25:43.5
Parang si Jella na anak ni Sylvia.
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Pareho silang group ng school.
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So ngayon, champion sila.
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They just won a few weeks ago.
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So in July, they're gonna be brought up.
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They're gonna be brought to the States to compete.
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Alam mo, minsan dancing ang nagiging siguro paraan para pumasok sa showbiz.
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Kasi somehow entertainment yan eh.
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Part ng entertainment eh.
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Mga Pinoy, dancing, singing, grabe.
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Ang talent talaga.
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Very talented ang mga Filipino.
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Dancer, eventually papasok din yan sa showbiz.
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In your almost 30 or more than 30 years, pero in and out.
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In and out ka naman.
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Hindi naman derederecho.
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Was there a time na parang you got frustrated na parang you wanted to give up?
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Actually, nung mga unang years ko, when I was doing yung mga teleserye.
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Kasi nga, parang I wasn't brief na ganito pala.
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Bigla na lang ako napunta dun.
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Unlike others talaga.
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Yes, I was unprepared.
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Yung iba talaga minimold.
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They started talaga at a very young age.
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Oo, the workshop.
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Although, I went through that rin naman.
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Pero, ito yung sobrang nabigla lang ako.
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Parang na-burn out ka.
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And then, di ba, before wala naman tayong cut-off.
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Pag gumagawa kang teleserye, isang unit lang.
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Kasi ngayon, di ba, may double unit.
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Noon, isa lang talaga.
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So, isang set lang talaga.
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And then, I remember yung ginagawa namin yung Sana Ikaw Na Nga.
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Dalawa pa yung character ko noon.
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I had to be the good girl and then the bad girl.
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Tapos, may pumasok pang isang character.
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So, parang naging tatlo yung character ko noon.
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Tapos, umaabot kami.
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Talagang hanggang the following day.
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The following day, oo.
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Nang kinabukasan na hindi nga morning lang eh.
27:28.5
Tapos, after noon, siyempre.
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Di ba, yung mga promos noon, tita, talagang iikutin mo lahat.
27:33.5
After ng taping, hindi ka pa makaka-uwi at makakatulog.
27:36.5
Magpapromote ka pa.
27:38.5
Tapos, may mga, pumupunta pa kami sa mga provinces.
27:41.5
Yung parang pagod na pagod ka.
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Tapos, hindi mo na alam kung anong araw.
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Anong araw ngayon.
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Anong date ngayon.
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Sino na ba ako ngayon.
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Talagang umabot sa ganun.
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Wala ka nang nakikita sa family mo, sa friends mo.
27:56.5
Talagang kung sino lang yung sa work environment mo.
27:59.5
So, there was a time na parang, I was really thinking,
28:01.5
Is this what I really want?
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I was never asked.
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I was never asked by anyone na,
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Siyempre, pagbata ka, di ba parang kung saan ka landalin?
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And I was like that.
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I was just so blessed talaga na nabigyan ako ng
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Pero yung iba kasi talagang dream nila yan.
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Gagawin nila lahat.
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Gagawin nila lahat yan.
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Ako talagang, sabi ko nga, destiny ko lang talaga ito.
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Nanandala ako doon.
28:25.5
Am I made for this?
28:28.5
Pero paano mo itinuloy?
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At paano, let's say, siyempre dumating ganun ano na parang.
28:33.5
And then I did Twin Hearts.
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Medyo mas light na yun.
28:36.5
Mas light yung story.
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Although everyday pa rin yun.
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And then I remember after that, I did Mulawin.
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And then doon na ako medyo nakapagsalita.
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Sa management ko na parang.
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That time kasi lumilipat ang Viva sa ABS.
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Lumipat na si Anne.
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Lumipat na si Sarah.
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Everyone was moving.
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Doon na ako nakapagsalita sa Viva na hindi muna ako sasama sa Viva.
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To transfer there.
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Because they were giving me really good teleseries noon.
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Sabi ko, dito muna ako sa 7.
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And then I resigned sa Mulawin.
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Yes, in the middle.
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They had to kill my character.
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Kasi sabi ko parang, hindi na ako.
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Hindi na ako nage-enjoy sa ginagawa ko.
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Siguro I was really burnt out na.
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And doon ko na na-realize na parang hindi talaga ako para dito.
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I signed up with another manager doon doon.
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And then nag-usap kami.
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Sabi ko, gagawa lang ako yung mga gusto ko.
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Yung mauoohan ko.
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Hindi yung kasi binigay sa akin.
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And I have to do it.
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Yung parang, kasi before ganun eh.
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Parang wala ka naman say.
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Pag sinabi sa'yo na.
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Although, ano ah, hindi naman ako pinilit.
29:46.5
Walang ganun, tita.
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Hindi naman ako pinilit ng Jemmy.
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Hindi rin ako pinilit ng Viva.
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Siyempre, pagbata ka, diba ganun.
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Kung ano ibibigay sa'yo.
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And then as you grow older nga, doon mo lang ma-realize na,
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wait lang, meron ka rin choice.
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You have to make decisions.
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At saka as you grow older, nagkakaroon ka rin ng ibang ano eh na,
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parang you wanted to be hands-on also doon sa mga roles na mapupunta sa'yo.
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Gusto mo mag-participate.
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Yes, gusto mo na mag-participate.
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And medyo alam mo na na,
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eto na yung gusto mong path.
30:16.5
When you moved to Dondon, hindi ka naman tuminto.
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Pero this time, inaano ka muna, kinukonsulta ka muna doon sa project na tatanggapin mo.
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And then I remember that was after Mulawin,
30:27.5
I did another teleserye with GMA eh.
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After noon yun, kasama si Dennis Trillo.
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So we did, we did Agos.
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It was isa sa mga unang panghapon na teleserye ng GMA yun.
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after noon, I did movies.
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Dondon gave me movies.
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Doon ko nakilala si Mark.
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Meron kaming movie'ng ginawa.
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Oo. Ano yung pelikulang ginawa niyo ni Mark?
30:55.5
Ikaw ang leading lady ni Mark.
30:58.5
Nakakatawa pa yun kasi nung in-offer yun,
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parang sabi ni Dondon,
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basahin mo yung script kasi rinerequest ka ni Governor Lapid.
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ang iniisip ko yung dad niya.
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Sabi niya, hindi.
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Ito yung anak ni Lito Lapid.
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Sabi niya yung ganun.
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ang dami ng people from Pampanga
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who were trying to convince me to do the movie.
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Oo, may mga iba-ibang mga tao na,
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oh, gusto ka daw makilala ni Mark Lapid?
31:28.5
Ako talaga parang, ha?
31:31.5
Clueless ako kung sino siya.
31:33.5
So finally, you said yes to that movie.
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Yes, finally when Dondon said,
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basahin mo muna yung script.
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Sabi kong ganyan.
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Kasi actually, before nun, tita,
31:43.5
marami na rin kasing movies na binibigay na parang mga politicians,
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yung mga nag-reproduce,
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tapos yung iba, sexy, mga gano'n.
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Ang dami ko talaga hindihan.
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Kasi it's not me talaga.
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So sabi ko talaga kay Dondon,
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Don, iyo ko talaga.
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And then sabi niya, basahin mo muna yung movie.
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Yeah, it's not naman yung parang sexy.
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It's not naman yung parang lovey-lovey lang.
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Sabi niya yung ganyan.
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So nung nabasa ko, sabi ko,
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ah okay, maganda naman talaga yung kwento.
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So in other words, nabuo yung love affair niyo ni Mark
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doon sa Batas Militar.
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Doon ko siya nakilala.
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And then nagtuloy-tuloy na.
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Ayun, doon ka na niya niligawan.
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Actually crush, matagal ka nang crush ni Mark.
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Gumawa lang siya ng paraan.
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Para kasi kung leading lady ka niya nga naman,
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hindi ka makakahindi.
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So mas may chance siya.
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Parang palapit sa iyo.
32:36.5
So that was the start.
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So after Batas Militar,
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nagkatrabaho ba kayo ulit?
32:43.5
So that was the first and the last.
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Yes, the first and the last.
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Kasunod na dito yung,
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And then napunta na sa…
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Matagal din pala.
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So eventually nung makilala mo si Mark,
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anong naging first impression mo sa kanya?
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Actually nung una parang sabi ko,
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ah okay, siya pala yun.
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And then very humble naman siya.
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Nung first day pa lang namin,
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he was very accommodating na,
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So sabi ko, ah mabait naman pala.
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Mga kapampangan sila.
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So medyo maano sila sa food.
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Parating may food sa set.
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How would you describe Mark?
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What I always say,
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he's such a good father talaga.
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Doon talaga wala akong masasabi.
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Parating siyang present sa lahat
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ng pwedeng nandiyan siya for the kids.
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Maybe because I think,
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syempre siya while growing up,
33:31.5
medyo busy yung dad niya, diba?
33:34.5
that's why siya talagang,
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Napaka hands-on niya.
33:38.5
Mas hands-on pa sa akin yun.
33:39.5
Tsaka strict yun.
33:43.5
mga babae yung mga anak niya.
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Sabi ko, takot ka lang sa ano.
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Anong may gano'n.
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pag mga babae yung mga anak,
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Oo, pambayad utang.
33:54.5
Nabibiro ba siya sa gano'n?
33:55.5
Oo, ako niloloko ko siya parati.
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nung bata ka siguro,
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ganito-ganyan ka.
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Kaya overprotective siya sa mga anak niya.
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Sa husband also rin naman,
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he's very responsible.
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Actually, yun talaga number one.
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He's very, very responsible.
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If he's watching right now,
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anong mensahe mo sa kanya?
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P, thank you for just being there
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for the four of us.
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Parating nga niya sinasabing,
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Oo, apat na anak niya ako daw.
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Ako ang pangaday.
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Thank you for being very, very patient.
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Ibang klase ang pasensya niya.
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He was the one who really taught me
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to be patient with everything.
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Hindi lahat kailangan mong pansinin.
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Hindi lahat kailangan mong gawin big deal.
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There are things talagang,
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you just let it be.
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Wala ka na magagawa.
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And Johan, I love you.
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your message to your three lovely daughters.
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just know that I will always
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and forever be here for you guys.
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And I love you girls.
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Your message to everyone.
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To everyone watching.
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Tita, invite ko na silang lahat.
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on April 10 na po.
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In all cinemas nationwide.
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Sana panoorin niyo.
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It's a really, really good movie.
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With Ms. Vina Morales,
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Ms. Angel Lu De Leon,
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Ms. Kendy Pangilinan,
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and Sineheven Peralejo.
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Sana magiging signal na rin ito
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ng tuloy-tuloy mong paggawa.
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Kasi malalaki na yung mga anak mo eh.
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You're open to it, right?
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Yes, I'm open naman.
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Pamdan Asian Cafe.
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Maraming maraming salamat.
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and of course, Roland.
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Most of you from Japan.
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Maraming salamat,
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Apesyonado by Joel Cruz.
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Erez Beauty Care.
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Vanilla Skin Clinic
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at Robinson's Magnolia.
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Mesa Tomas Morato.
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Richie's Kitchen by Richie Ang.
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Nessa Estilia Salon
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for My Hair and Makeup.
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Gandang Ricky Reyes.
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Chato Sugay Jimenez.
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Bebot Santos of Coloretic Clothing.
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Maraming salamat,
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Babi Ari Quintina.
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The Red Meat Shawarma.
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Maraming salamat,
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Shinagawa Diagnostic and Preventive Care.
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And Shinagawa LASIK and Aesthetics Center.
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CC6 Online Casino.
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Maraming salamat,
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Sugar White by Sugar Margarita.
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By Sugar Mercado.
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maraming maraming salamat, anak.
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Thank you so much.
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magigit 18 years tayo hindi nagkita.
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And this is the only time
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na nagkita ulit tayo.
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But you look the same.
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Napakaganda pa rin.
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alatang-alatang marunong mag-alaga
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si Mark Lapid sa'yo.
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maraming maraming salamat
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sa inyong patuloy na pagsubaybay.
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Huwag niyo pong kakaligtaan
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Unhittable icon of TikTok
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Hanggang sa muli,
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dito lamang po sa
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with Aster Amoyo.
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and God bless us all.
