00:18.0
Because they won't go so fast
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Babies will grow so very fast
00:40.0
Sige, mag wala ka lang
00:42.0
Sige, sige, parinig ko sa kanya
00:48.0
Dating ko ngayon ngayon
00:50.0
Habang nag-i-edit ako ng vlog
00:52.0
Actually, nagkaroon na ako
00:54.0
Medyo okay na yung oras ko
00:56.0
Sa pag-i-edit ng vlog
00:58.0
Umiyak, patay tayo dyan
01:02.0
Masarap nang higaw mo
01:04.0
Panood-nood na lang ng Netflix
01:06.0
No, pause ngayon muna natin
01:08.0
Pause ngayon muna natin
01:10.0
Oh, may iyak nun si baby
01:12.0
Oh, may iyak nun si baby
01:16.0
Oras niya na ba para kumain?
01:18.0
Oras niya na ba para kumain?
01:20.0
Still few minutes pa
01:26.0
Pero gusto ko lang
01:28.0
Gusto ko lang update sa inyo mga prena
01:30.0
Kami ni Vika medyo
01:32.0
Nakaka-adjust-adjust na kami ngayon
01:34.0
Sa tulog, sa kung paano yung ano
01:38.0
Ito dito, nagwo-work yung
01:44.0
Ah, hindi matulog
01:46.0
Nasaan yung ano mo?
01:48.0
Nasaan yung nipulpad mo?
01:54.0
Sabi ko ba't ganun? Parang may tumutulog, umiihi
01:58.0
Wake up, let's eat!
02:04.0
Hindi ko alam sa iyo, so marami nang si Vika
02:06.0
Marami nang supply si Vika ng gatas
02:10.0
O sige, di pa naman
02:12.0
Maganda pa naman yung tulog niya
02:14.0
So yun nga mga pre, advice na
02:16.0
Update lang namin kayo ngayon
02:18.0
Katulad ngayon, tignan nyo, nakakapag-edit na ako
02:22.0
Nakakanood-nood na ng
02:26.0
Habang iniiwan lang muna namin
02:30.0
And kapag tulog lang siya
02:32.0
Kasi mas madalas na siyang
02:34.0
Yung matulog ngayon
02:36.0
Kung baga siguro si Baby
02:38.0
Nakapag-adjust na rin sa temperature, sa oras
02:40.0
Kaya kapag madaling araw
02:42.0
Hindi na kami ganun ka-sleepless
02:44.0
And nag-usap na kami ni Vika
02:46.0
Na hati na talaga yung oras
02:48.0
Mas gusto ni Vika na gising siya ng madaling araw
02:52.0
Sa umaga, ako kasi nagpapaaraw
02:56.0
Already, even me, I feel like better
02:58.0
Not comparable to very few days
03:00.0
Parang you want to do this
03:04.0
May iyat si Vika nung anong dinya lang
03:06.0
Paano gagawin, sobrang hirap
03:08.0
But they said it's this Baby Blues na parang you are sad
03:10.0
And all women's encounter that pala
03:12.0
Ayas ko may kaibigan there in Lithuania that have anak
03:16.0
It's called Baby Blues
03:18.0
Like almost the same as for Spartum
03:20.0
But I didn't went to very hard part
03:24.0
So that's very enjoyable stage
03:26.0
Baby sleeping, awake
03:28.0
You know his schedule
03:30.0
Ako buti nalang nanonood din ako ng mga
03:32.0
Sa Youtube-Youtube kung ano yung mga
03:34.0
Advice nila and nagamit ko naman
03:36.0
Kasi sabi nga nila
03:38.0
Be more understanding
03:40.0
Lagi ka nandyan, lagi ka nakikinig
03:42.0
And kahit na nakakaasar yung asawa mo
03:46.0
I'm not gonna say
03:48.0
In case sa iba, ako di naman ako
03:50.0
Nakakaasar sa iyo
03:54.0
Hindi, ibig kong sabihin mga pre
03:56.0
Kasi talagang ano
03:58.0
Ipakita mo talagang nandyan ka lagi
04:00.0
Kasi si Vika biglang ganun
04:02.0
Biglang suddenly iiyak, malulungkot
04:04.0
Especially kapag ano na
04:06.0
Kapag sabi niya kapag yung lulubog na yung araw
04:08.0
Magagabi na, parang nalulungkot na siya
04:10.0
So ang gusto niya lagi akong kasama
04:12.0
Kaya yung time na yun
04:14.0
Lagi ko siyang sinasamahan
04:16.0
Nagkokwentuhan kami
04:18.0
Tapos tinatanong ko lagi siya
04:20.0
Anong gusto niya sabihin
04:24.0
Talagang kung anong nasa sa loobin mo
04:26.0
Anong gusto mo sabihin, i-share mo lang lahat
04:28.0
Tapos tayong asawang lalaki talagang
04:30.0
Makikinig lang tayo ng makikinig
04:32.0
And kailangan lang natin
04:34.0
Mag-relate sa kanila
04:36.0
Okay lang yan and
04:38.0
More physical touch like hug
04:40.0
Kiss, basta showing more affection
04:44.0
O understanding sa kanya
04:46.0
Kasi especially nga pag gabi
04:48.0
Ganun yung nagiging sitwasyon namin
04:50.0
And yun yung first ano namin
04:52.0
Parang mga first few days namin
04:54.0
Ngayon yan nakaka-recover na siya
04:58.0
Okay na siya, medyo okay na siya
05:00.0
And kapag gumagabi na
05:02.0
Ayan nakaka-nood ba nga siya
05:06.0
Buti may Netflix, if no Netflix I don't know how we would live in this world
05:08.0
Saka mas gusto niya rin ngayon
05:10.0
Is laging maingay sa bahay
05:12.0
Para ayaw niyang malungkot
05:14.0
Ayaw niyang walang ingay
05:16.0
Kaya lagi naka-on yung TV namin
05:18.0
Para kahit wala nanonood naka-on lang
05:20.0
Para may nagsasalita lang
05:22.0
So ayun yung update namin sa mga
05:24.0
Unang araw namin talagang hati
05:26.0
Pero si Bika hindi pa naman siya
05:28.0
Hindi ko siya pinaggagawa
05:30.0
Dito sa gawaing bahay
05:32.0
Kumbaga full time talaga ako dito sa
05:34.0
Sa bahay talagang siya
05:36.0
Nakapokus lang talaga siya
05:40.0
Kasi sabi sa kanya ni Doktor dati
05:44.0
Pinaka ano mo lang, kaya mo lang talagang gawin
05:46.0
Is yung buhatin si Baby
05:48.0
Yan yung ano namin, yung routine namin araw-araw
05:58.0
Kilos, kilos, kilos
06:00.0
Anong kinikilos mo?
06:02.0
We wake up, we clean a little bit the room
06:06.0
Then we ligo the baby
06:08.0
Then we prepare breakfast, then the baby is eating
06:10.0
Then change the baby's meat
06:14.0
Ito raw talaga yung pinaka magaan
06:16.0
But they say it depends
06:20.0
Someone said they had much easier
06:22.0
When the baby was already bigger
06:24.0
Someone said this is easier
06:26.0
It really depends
06:28.0
Kasi ang sabi nila
06:30.0
Yung iba naman sabi ito raw yung pinaka magaan
06:32.0
Kasi daw yung bata daw
06:34.0
Tulog lang ng tulog
06:36.0
Tulog, kain, palit daya per, ligo
06:38.0
Yun lang yung pinaka gagawin mo
06:40.0
Kapag daw naging 3, 5 months, 6 months
06:42.0
Yun na daw yung medyo makulit na
06:44.0
But at least you can like talk to the baby
06:48.0
Oo yun nga, yun nga lang
06:50.0
I always need to talk to someone
06:52.0
I will have a baby to talk to
06:56.0
Kami ni Bika talagang tinetresure namin
06:58.0
Chine-cherish namin yung bawat oras
07:00.0
Bawat minuto, segundo
07:02.0
Na kasama namin si baby na
07:04.0
Ganyan siya kaliit ngayon
07:06.0
Talagang sobrang tinetresure namin
07:08.0
Kaya kami ni Bika mga pre
07:10.0
Kapag nag-aalaga kami halos nag-aagawad pa talaga kami ng ano
07:14.0
Kunwari kailangan niya ng pakainin
07:16.0
Tulog pa, sabi ko hindi mamaya muna pakainin
07:18.0
Ako na lang magigising, minsan ako na gumigising kay baby
07:20.0
Tapos ibibigay ko ka sa kanya
07:22.0
Para gusto ko mahawakan din naman
07:24.0
Kasi siyempre ewan ko ba
07:26.0
Sa ganun yung feeling naming dalawa
07:28.0
Nag-aagawan talaga kami na ano
07:30.0
Na magkaroon ng time kay baby
07:32.0
So when it's gabi, when it's already night
07:34.0
I'm trying to make her like
07:36.0
Schedule when she's sleeping like 9-10
07:38.0
It's like that still
07:40.0
Ilo, and then I will
07:44.0
We will transfer her here
07:46.0
We transfer her here
07:48.0
And then when it's already like 9-10
07:52.0
Then change her diaper and everything
07:54.0
And put her into swaddle and sleep
07:56.0
So that she knows that it's already night
08:00.0
Sabi kasi nila mas maganda raw maaga pa pinapractice mo na yung
08:02.0
That they know what is when it's night
08:06.0
At night when I'm feeding the baby
08:08.0
The only thing that is helping me to survive is also like tiktok
08:10.0
I keep webtoons, reading webtoons
08:14.0
So I'm sitting like that
08:16.0
So I'm sitting here feeding the baby
08:18.0
So that you will not fall asleep
08:20.0
Because it's so scary to fall asleep with the baby
08:22.0
Saka mga pre, kung mapapansin nyo
08:24.0
Ba't parang wala yung parents ko dito
08:26.0
Wala kaming katulong dito
08:28.0
Before na manganak si Vika, nag-usap na kami na
08:30.0
Gusto niya rin na
08:32.0
Kaming dalawa daw talaga
08:34.0
Hands on na hands on daw
08:38.0
Kasi ako nag-agree naman ako
08:40.0
Sabi ko, try nga natin
08:42.0
Pwede naman nating tawagin anytime
08:44.0
One call away lang naman sila
08:46.0
Pero hanggat maaari daw, mas maganda yung
08:48.0
Hands on ka sa lahat
08:50.0
Yung ikaw talaga lahat ng gagawa
08:52.0
Yung mararanasan mo talaga yung hirap
08:56.0
Imagine my brother in Israel
08:58.0
He was also alone when he was first born
09:00.0
Only him and his asawa
09:02.0
Hindi parang, hindi naman kasi uso sa inyo yung
09:06.0
Parents will visit lang
09:10.0
Unless you have many kids like my brother
09:12.0
He have already, when he have his third kid
09:14.0
That's the time my mom help because it's like a lot already
09:16.0
Mas nararasa ka, mas nararasa ka
09:18.0
Parang damdaman namin mga pre
09:20.0
Yung parang care namin sa bawat isa
09:22.0
Yung feelings namin sa bawat isa
09:24.0
Kasi kami ni Vika
09:26.0
Gumagawa mismo ng time na
09:28.0
Kunwari nakikita ko si Vika inaantok na
09:30.0
And the same sa kanya
09:32.0
Siya mismo gumagawa ng time na
09:34.0
O sige ako muna dyan
09:36.0
Palit muna tayo matulog ka muna
09:40.0
So mas nakikita mong may concern siya sayo
09:42.0
Kaya sabi ko parang
09:44.0
Nagiging mas malalim yung relationship namin
09:46.0
Napapansin namin siyempre
09:48.0
Yung relationship namin dito kay baby
09:52.0
Mas lumalalim din yung connection namin
09:56.0
Kung baga sa buong pamilya tayo pa
09:58.0
Ang connected na connected tayo
10:00.0
Soon enough din mga pre babalik na rin kami
10:04.0
Medyo nakarecover na rin si Vika
10:08.0
So that's why wait for live selling also
10:14.0
Medyo hindi pa siya nakakarecover so
10:16.0
Magrecover niya is nasa one month pa
10:18.0
If you have any also suggestions about
10:20.0
Recovery of this CS
10:22.0
You can comment there
10:24.0
Huwag ka lang kumilos makakarecover ka
10:26.0
Hayaan mo kong gumawa lahat
10:28.0
Para mabilis ka makarecover
10:32.0
Tatapon ko lahat yung huwag kang magilala
10:34.0
Utos ka lang okay na sa akin yun
10:36.0
Mag utos ka lang na mag utos kahit ano utos mo
10:38.0
Hindi ako magre-reklamo muna ngayon
10:42.0
Sa alam nyo parang kakaiba rin
10:44.0
Nagkaroon ng baby dito sa bahay parang
10:46.0
Nagkaroon ng rainbow sa loob
10:48.0
If only you know how tahimik it is
10:50.0
When we are just together
10:52.0
Kapag dalawa lang kami ni Vika parang
10:56.0
Parang not existing people in this house
10:58.0
Noong una hindi pa kami sanay sa iyak talaga
11:02.0
Medyo lalo na si Vika
11:04.0
Halos iiyak yan kapag umiiyak yung baby
11:06.0
Di niya alam kung anong gagawin niya
11:08.0
Napipressure siya na ganyan ganyan
11:10.0
Pero kinausap ko siya sabi ko
11:12.0
Huwag ka mag galala normal lang na umiiyak yung bata
11:14.0
Hayaan mo lang minsan na umiiyak
11:16.0
Huwag kang ma-pressure
11:18.0
Huwag kang ma-taranta
11:20.0
Ako rin kasi noong una medyo natataranta ako
11:22.0
Siyempre bago lang eh
11:24.0
Noong nakikita ako sa mga nurse kung paano nila hinahandle yung mga baby
11:28.0
Kaya sinashare ko sa kanya
11:30.0
And yun habang tumatagal
11:32.0
Nagiging okay na sa kanya
11:36.0
Yun ang kinaganda rin kapag hands on
11:38.0
Siguro dalawa kayong mag-asawa talaga
11:40.0
Yung kayong dalawa lang
11:42.0
Kasi ang daming yung... But imagine I'm lucky that you're the only one who's married to you
11:46.0
Yun din ang kinaganda kasi
11:48.0
Kaming dalawa, siyempre sa bahay lang din naman ako
11:50.0
Nag-i-edit, nag-bablog
11:52.0
Mga ganun, magkasama talaga kami
11:54.0
Talagang natutulungan ko siya sa lahat ng bagay
11:56.0
I even said to my mom
11:58.0
Really? Yes, that I love you so much
12:00.0
That I love you more than
12:02.0
Even before, parang
12:04.0
If not you, I don't know what would be
12:06.0
Sabi ko rin kasi na-realize ko rin
12:10.0
Siya yung nagdala kay baby Sobe ng 9 months
12:14.0
Makabawi man lang ako na
12:16.0
Ako naman yung mag-bit-bit
12:18.0
Yung hindi na siya mahirapan, makapagpahinga talaga siya
12:20.0
Medyo emosyonal daw talaga yung babae
12:24.0
Magiging spongebob ka talaga muna
12:26.0
Inaabsorb mo talaga lahat
12:28.0
Di ba? Yeah, but of course don't
12:30.0
Don't do like that later to me
12:32.0
What do you mean?
12:34.0
Di ba spongy absorbs everything right?
12:36.0
And then you do this and all this
12:38.0
Na wabala like that
12:42.0
So pag yung mga ganyan kami ni Vika
12:48.0
Pinatawanan ko na lang talaga
12:50.0
Kasi kapag seryoso kong in-approach yun
12:52.0
Yun ang approach ko sa kanya
12:54.0
Siyempre hindi nagiging maganda
12:56.0
Lahat ng approach ko sa kanya
12:58.0
Kapag galit siya, naaasar siya
13:00.0
Talagang tatawanan ko, ihahag ko, ikikiss ko
13:02.0
Para tapos na agad yung problema
13:04.0
And hindi siya nai-stress
13:06.0
Yun ang pinaka number 1
13:08.0
Kailangan talaga hindi ma-stress
13:10.0
Kasi lalo na kapag nagbe breastfeed
13:14.0
Nakabase dun yung gatas
13:16.0
Kapag stress ka daw
13:18.0
Less daw yung lumalabas na gatas
13:20.0
Sorry I need to breastfeed