LUIS LISTENS TO BOY ABUNDA (This pain is the only thing that connects me to my mother)| Luis Manzano
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It was difficult.
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Hey vlog, welcome to my guys.
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Now, this is a very special vlog para sa akin.
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Actually, every single time.
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An interview is always special because there's always something to learn.
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Pero eto, I think this is the first time na may interview ko siya.
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Kahit isang mundo ang ginagalawa namin.
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Kahit sabihin mo na isang art ang iniikutan namin.
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Pero first time ko yata siyang may interview.
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We have on Luis Listens.
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Thank you very much.
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The king of talk, Tito Boy.
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Hi, at maraming salamat.
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Tungo mo naman, no?
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This is the first time you're doing an interview.
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Siyempre, kadalasan, ah, the buzz before kaya nagkatanong.
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O any other talk show, 99.9% ikaw nag-i-interview.
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How does it feel na ikaw naman ang tatanungin?
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I'm excited because it's you.
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And it's always exciting to do something for the first time.
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I don't know what's gonna happen.
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And that excites me.
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Anything that's uncertain, anything that's unknown, anything that makes me fidgety.
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Yan ang sinay-iisip ko lang.
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Every single day.
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Like, you did it on a daily basis.
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Na nag-i-interview ka ng mga tao.
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May konting ano ba yan?
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May konting kaba?
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Is there a certain sense of anxiety na ikaw naman ang tatanungin?
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Baka mamaya may matanong na hindi mo yung na-expect na tanungin.
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The excitement is correct.
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Yung kaba kasi, naubos na.
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Because I'm very comfortable.
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I used to be nervous because you go for perfection.
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I have to say the right things.
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Kailangan tama ang sagot ko.
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Kailangan matuwa kayo.
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Kailangan magustuhan ni Luis.
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It took a journey to get to where I am today.
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Kung saan, pag matapilog po ang aking dila, ang E maging E, ang O maging O dahil waray ko ako.
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So, hindi madali yung navigation ng distance na yun.
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So, nawala na ako because I don't think I speak.
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And I do interviews both as an interviewer and as an interviewee.
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Not running after pleasing anyone.
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I mean, you know, I've come to the point when this is who I am.
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What you have to offer, take it, love it, or leave it.
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Walk away, embrace me, you have the right to do anything.
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Tanong ko sa iyo.
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Did you ever look back at yung mga unang-unang mga interview mo at being so seasoned now?
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Na marami ka nang natutunan, napagdaanan.
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Tapos pinanood mo yung, for example, your first year hosting.
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Ano ang pakiramdam looking back at?
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Kung merong the worst interviewer in the world, runaway winner ako.
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Naalala ko, I don't know exactly pangalawa, pangatlo, pangapat na interview ko.
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I was doing show and tell.
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Ito sa Saturday evening show.
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Kasi time slot yun ng Penthouse Live.
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RSVP, 10 o'clock Saturdays.
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And then I did a show with Gretchen Barreto called Show and Tell.
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I was doing short interviews.
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Hindi ko alam kung sino nga aking in-interview.
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May mga, the faux pas of this world.
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Yung mga maling pagka-pronounce, maling...
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One particular interview.
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I was so, I was so engrossed in the interview na parang sinasabihan ko yung girl.
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I don't remember anymore kung sino.
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How does it feel?
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Na ikaw ang eye of the apple ni Luis Masano.
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Emphasis. Yung mga ganun bagay.
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I used to be very conscious about it.
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I used to be very conscious about what people would think about me.
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I used to be very conscious about making sense.
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Nung nalaman mo na tama yun, nung nalaman mo yun yung itutoo na Apple VI,
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anong ginawa mo pag uwi?
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Hindi. Alam mo, that's why when I teach today,
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sa hosting classes ko and interviewing classes,
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parati kong sinasabi na yung mali na nagagawa natin when you do public interviews,
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ang laki-laki niyan sa atin na parabagang you committed a crime.
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Pag pinanood mo naman, di naman ganun kalaki.
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At ngayon kasi, mandaling kumalat.
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Dati, kung sino lang nakapanood.
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Kung nagkataon na tatlo lang nakapanood, safe ba?
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Ngayon, uulit-ulitin pa yan, di ba?
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Tama. And that's the advantage of having started a career during the time.
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Medyo meron pang...
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Liway. May liway ka ba?
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But I was very bad.
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I was very bad when I was starting doing hosting and interviewing jobs.
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Remember, Luis, hindi naman ako interviewer.
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I was a manager. I was a talent manager. I still am.
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I came from the theater where I worked with Lola, with Tita Ninita.
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So, yun ang aking mundo.
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Nung inilagay ako sa telebisyon, I was totally clueless.
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Totally, totally clueless.
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But, like your mom, noong nabigyan ako ng pagkakataon, nag-aaral ako.
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Pinanood ko lahat ng klase ng interviews.
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Nagbasa ako ng lahat ng pwedeng basahin.
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Nag-homework na ako.
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I was watching the bad and the good para malaman ko kung paano gawin yung trabaho.
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Ang tawag sa iyo, and of course, well-deserved King of Talk.
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Kung may ibang moniker kaya para sa iyo, ibang title para kay Tito Boy, what would it be?
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Sobrang galing mo. Kahit lagyan mo ng mantika, kayang-kaya mo pa.
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Ay hindi. Kakapit at kakapit pa rin ako doon.
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Nasa taas pa rin ako. Oo.
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Kung hindi King of... You know, I don't even know how it started.
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I haven't talked about this.
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I don't even know who gave me that title.
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Hindi ko alam paano nag-umpisa. Hindi ko alam.
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Kung sinong napakabuting tao.
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Not that I subscribe.
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Not that I live waking up in the morning and saying I am the King of Talk.
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Pero I realized as a brand specialist that it became easier because I had a title.
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Oo. I had a title. It is important.
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It doesn't define my work. It doesn't define who I am.
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It doesn't define how I live.
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But in the context of branding, malaking tulong yun.
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Ang ginawa sa akin ng ABS kung hindi ko nagkakamali.
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Ang pambansang host. Diba?
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Kung bibigyan mo ako ng title, Tito Boy. Anong bibigyan mo ang title?
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Isipin mo kung gaano ako kakisig.
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Kung isipin mo na ako ay kadalasang pinaglalawayan ng isang katauhan.
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At kahit pa paano, nag-host din ako.
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Kung bibigyan mo ako ng isang title ngayon, yun na ang gagamitin ko.
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Baka ipatutuwa ko pa sa likod ko.
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Oo. Pero alam mo, totoo yan, Luis.
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You know, I love the title of your vlog.
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At yung mga nanonood, the Luis-eners.
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The Luis-eners. Diba?
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Ganda. I love that aspect of interviewing because
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in my classes, again, I go back to my syllabus,
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meron kaming exercise na wala kaming gagawin kundi makinig.
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Meron kaming mga exercises, halimbawa, na makikinig ka lang
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and then you do an extemporaneous, sa Amerika ang tawag po niyan ay spontaneous,
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speech based on what you heard.
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And using your instinct and your reason.
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How does it feel, Tito Boy, na sabi mo nga when you started,
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worst host, sabi mo, diba?
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Pero eto ngayon, you have that experience, that credibility na
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anong pakiramdam yung first day na nagturo mo?
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As a host, tapos ang daming nandun.
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It's gratifying both for the mind and the spirit na parang
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I came from nowhere in terms of hosting. Literally nowhere.
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Tapos sineryoso ko yung trabaho at ako'y sumulat ng syllabus
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at ako'y nagtuturo and I put that into an academic framework.
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Yung fulfillment, parang lilipad.
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Sabi mo nga, we did an interview before para sa'yo naman na
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you pretty much live in the spotlight.
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Anong isang bagay na hindi alam ng mga tao tungkol kay Tito Boy, the King of Talk?
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Na meron akong pigsa ngayon dito.
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Kapagkatapos ang interview na to,
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diretso ako sa ER at ipapiprig ko po.
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Actually, since nagbablog kami, gagawa kami ng pangalawang vlog,
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Popping Tito Boy's Pigsa.
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Ang ganda nun. May review siya.
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Isang pimple na malaki na napakasakit sa loob.
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You know, I'll tell you.
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I'm very public pero merong mga aspeto ng buhay ko
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katulad ng tagyawat sa likod ko na malaki
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that I keep to myself.
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Alam mo Luis, somebody once said that
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the power of a powerful man is defined not by his power
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but by the things that he can keep to himself.
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Sino yan? Kung di ako nagkakamali.
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Nagsabi, Long Mejia. Tama ba?
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We're talking about Long the philosopher.
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Pero yun yung sinasabi natin na no matter how public you are,
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no matter how big that spotlight is,
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meron at meron ka na ikaw lang at ang sikmura mo at ang Diyos ang nakakaalam.
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Tama. Tama na naman. Sabi nga…
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Share ko lang din. One thing.
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We spoke before. Sabi nga ni mommy ko.
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Ang payo niya sa industriya.
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One, ang sabi ni mommy is madaling sumikat.
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But it's about longevity.
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At isang sinabi ni mommy ay magtira ka para sa sarili mo.
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Don't put everything out there. Diba?
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And easier said than done. That's tough.
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That's really tough.
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Kasi ako ang nakatulong dahil I became very public.
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I took on a public job.
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Pero yung purpose ng buhay ko was my mother at home.
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Ang compass ko, nanay ko, up to now.
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In life and in death, she has remained my moral compass.
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May mga pagkakataon, I catch myself making decisions.
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Ang tanong ko pa rin, pag buhay ang nanay, ano kayang sasabihin?
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Matutuwa kay ang nanay ko pag ginawa ko ito. Yun.
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So, merong mga aspeto ng buhay ko na akin lang.
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And I'm glad I was able to take certain things really close to my chest.
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Because even for public figures, about certain moments that you want to keep to yourself.
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Dito boys, sa lahat ng napagdaanan mo sa buhay, the good, the bad,
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ano na ang most important life lesson na natutunan mo?
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Mula sa nanay ko, the first thing that comes to mind,
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parating, dalawa actually.
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Parating sinasabi ng nanay ko, kahit anong mangyari sa'yo sa buhay,
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huwag kang mawawala pa uwi.
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Never lose your way back home.
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Teacher ang nanay ko eh. Grade 1 teacher.
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So ang trato niya sa akin, pupil. Grade 1 pupil.
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Pangalawa, naniniwala ko sa competition, Luis. I'm very, very confident.
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I'm very, very competitive. Pero I believe in healthy competition.
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I don't subscribe too much to this whole notion about I don't compete, although I respect it.
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I don't compete, I compete with myself. Hindi.
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I compete with everybody. I compete with everybody.
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Because sa pamamagitan ng competition na iyon, I am cognizant of what happens.
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Ano bang ginagawa nila? Ano bang ginagawa ni Jon Stewart? Ano bang ginagawa ni Luis Manzano?
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Ano bang ginagawa ni Bianca Gonzalez? Totoo iyon.
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And that's competition. By knowing what they're doing, you learn along the way.
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You learn along the way. Pero hindi ako natatakot matalo.
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I used to join declamation contests sa Borongan Eastern Summit.
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I used to join oratorical contests, pati nga dance contests.
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But nanay would always say, in waray, it sounds this way.
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Upang magtikang itong contest, ikaw na ang nagdaog.
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Even before a contest begins, you are my winner.
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Eh, pa't ka matatakot? Diba? Ipanalo na ako sa nanay ko eh.
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I never got to meet, I mean siguro I met nanay, but we never got to hang out, to sit down.
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How would you describe her?
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Wow. In what way?
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Formidable. In all ways. She was a formidable woman.
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She was very strong.
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She was unafraid.
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The laughter was infectious.
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And what a presence.
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Mahirap na mahirap ang nanay ko.
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She was a public school teacher for 41 years, 11 months, and 2 days.
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Nagturo ang ina ko ng grade 1.
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Formidable is a term.
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Higit pa sa tapang. Higit pa sa hindi takot.
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My nanay was present.
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Parating sinasabi niya, be present.
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My nanay was always present.
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Hindi umatras sa maganda at hindi maganda na nangyari sa aming buhay.
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Ang mga mga isa may isang special, di ba?
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But you have one fondest memory.
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Kung ba ba, yun yung anchor mo na binabalik-balikan pag sinanay ang pinag-uusapan.
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Nanay had dementia, and she passed on December 1 of 2019.
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Hindi ko alam, pag pinag-iisipan ko, ano ba ang defining moment naming dalawa ng nanay?
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It was when she was weak, she was bound to the hospital bed.
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Ako'y nagpagawa po ng isang hospital bed.
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Talbeng kasi hindi na nga siya ambulatory para naikikilos namin.
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But what defines it is, I don't know.
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Iba yung connection ko sa nanay na at a point when I thought she was going to forget my name because of dementia,
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alam ko na hanggang dulo ng kanyang buhay, she didn't forget my name.
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Kasi pagkakatapos ng Tonight with Boy Abunda, midnight, I'd go to St. Luke's,
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hindi kakain hanggang hindi dumadating ang kanyang anak.
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But nanay was not, hindi nang nagsasalita, hindi nang nagpagpagpintuhan.
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She was alive, I mean, I would wake her up.
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Pero hindi kakain hanggang hindi ako dumadating.
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And then, alam niya pag sinasabi ko, nanay, dito na ako, alam niya ang kanyang anak na si Boy ay naroon na.
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I don't know why I keep going back to that experience as a defining moment of my relationship with nanay.
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Siguro dahil noong hindi na siya kasing lakas physically, noong siya ay inaatake na ng demensya,
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kumapit na lang kami doon sa kung anuman ang pwedeng umandar.
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And at that point, I thought she was living to the heart.
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Di ba? Yung hindi ka pwedeng hindi makilala ng nanay mo eh.
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Pagpuso na ang pinairal.
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There was a time I would be talking to her, hindi naman siya sumasagot sa akin.
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Nanay, alam mo ba ang mga nangyayari ngayong araw?
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Alam mo, nay, ganito ang gagawin ko.
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Alam mo, nay, si manay, aking kapatid, ganito, magsusumbong ako, ganito ang ginawa nila, etc.
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There were moments when I'd tell her story.
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There were moments when I'd tell her stories that were sad, siguro.
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Makikita mo ang lumuluha.
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So sabi ko, ay, ang nanay, ipinagpapatuloy pa rin niya yung kanyang, kasi we love to talk.
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We love to do conversations about anything and nothing.
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Pareho kami madaldaan.
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Pero kahit kailan, Luis, hindi ako sumagot sa nanay ko pagalit.
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Yari ako at nailagay sa isipan ko.
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Sumagot ako sa nanay ko, impyerno ang tuloy ko.
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That was so present in my mind.
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Ako, I just wanna add then, we're on the same page.
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Despite kung gaano ako kadaldal, I can honestly say na never ako sumagot ng pabalang kay mommy.
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As in, looking back, I mean, of course, minsan you talk, you may argue,
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pero yung sabihin mong pabalang talaga na sagot, parang never ko siya ginaw.
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Sa daldal kong ito, sa tapang ko rin ito, sa lakas ng loob kong ito, hindi.
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Hindi ko nagawa yun.
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Because what you said, despite what nanay was going through,
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it was her love for you and your love for her that kept her going.
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And it was there all throughout.
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She died in my arms.
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At 3.48 in the morning of December 1,
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dito namatay ang aking nanay.
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It was a difficult experience.
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hug nyo ako pa yung akin.
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It was difficult.
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it was so painful.
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Alam mo, Luis, yung pakiramdam na to be gutted.
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Alam mo yun, yung parang kang hinihiwa.
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Buong, buong katawan mo.
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Buong katawan mo, parang yung hinahati ka.
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Ganon ang pakiramdam mo.
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Wala, hindi ka nagpa-function intellectually, mentally, emotionally,
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nung nawala ang nanay.
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And I was dealing with,
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Sakit, sakit, sakit, sakit.
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Bago ako umalis ng bahay before this conversation,
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Nay, bay, ngayon, sanay na ako eh.
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Pagdating ng bahay,
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Nay, dito na ako.
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Ah, naging bahagi ko na.
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And I always share this with, ah, my, my relatives.
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Sabi ko, ayoko mawala yung pain.
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Ayoko mawala yung pain.
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Because for as long as I live,
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I want this pain to be part of my life.
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Because this is the only thing
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that connects me to my mother.
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It's an acknowledgement
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Of your love for each other.
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At saka, yan ang nagpapabuhay.
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Umiiyak ako kahit saan.
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I haven't been to my Lipa rest house in about, what, two years?
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Siguro, one year and a half?
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Alam ko, pagbalik ko doon,
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I built her a small chapel.
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Oo. Alam mo, pagbalik ko doon,
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alam ko, iiyak ako.
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Pero, hindi ko na pinipigilan.
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she remains my moral compass.
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And even in death,
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she remains present.
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Not in, you know,
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macabre way, you know.
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She remains present,
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remains present in my life.
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Thank you. Thank you for that story, Tito Boy.
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Thank you, thank you very much.
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Nag-prepare ako ng mga top ten para sa'yo, Tito Boy.
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Nag-prepare mga top ten para sa'yo.
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Eto, pinag-usapan namin ito ng buong pamilya ko.
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Paano tatanungin.
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So, mag-ready ka.
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Kasi kami ang na-hot seat mo.
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Hindi pa ito fast talk, ha?
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Hindi pa ito fast talk.
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Sa lahat ng mga na-interview mo,
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current and past,
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sino ang pinaka-favorite mong na-interview and why?
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Pag nakita mo siya na,
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o sino ang guest natin for this coming week,
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you always look forward to that interview?
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That's really tough, Luis.
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Because the real answer to that is,
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bawat interview mo ay parang libro.
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Iba ang takeaway mo.
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At hindi ho ito magpaka-safe, ha?
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I have favorite interviews.
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You know, I have favorite interviews.
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wala talaga ako single interview
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You know, alam mo kung sino nasa isip ko ngayon?
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Sarah Jessica Parker.
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Only because, you know,
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I went to that interview of Sarah Jessica Parker,
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I was given 12 minutes.
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Tapos, in advance nila yung schedule.
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Ganoon naman pag mga junkets, di ba?
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Ibig sabihin, instead of 4 o'clock,
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they made it 3 o'clock.
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So, I was told late.
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Tumakbo ako doon kung saan kami mag-uusap.
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So, I had 6 minutes remaining.
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Eh, pag nag-i-interview tayo, Luis,
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Basta tayo nagtatanong,
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tumatawag sa mga kaibigan, sa lahat.
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So, I sat down in front of her
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and I started to do the conversation.
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6 minutes and I said,
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Thank you, Miss Jessica Parker,
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because I've had my 6 minutes.
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She said, no, no, no.
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You know, you can continue.
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Kasi may mga sumusunod, di ba?
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I don't know why I thought of her.
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Tough interview dahil Hollywood star.
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there's just none.
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I was doing private conversations
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si Sister Christine Tan.
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She came to the show.
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Tinanong niya ako,
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Off-air, 2 minutes to air yata.
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Sabi ko, ako po si Boy Abunda.
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I'm doing our interview.
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Hindi ako nakapanood ng telebisyon.
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Ako'y naka-base sa Leveriza,
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isang area kung saan pinagsisilbihan ko ang mga mahihirap.
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Sabi niya, bakit ba tayo mag-uusap?
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Sabi ko, siguro dahil...
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History, bakit tayo mag-uusap?
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Totoo. Sabi ko, siguro dahil, bakit ba tayo mag-uusap?
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Totoo. Sabi ko, siguro dahil,
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Ano po, Sister, may...
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I think you're raising funds
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and your congregation wants to know
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It was tough, Luis.
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The first 12 minutes,
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that was the longest body I've had on television.
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kumusap po kayo mabuti.
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Ano ang ginagawa mo
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ano nagsisilbi sa mahihirap?
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How do you survive?
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No, and you know,
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kumbaga, that's just her.
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Hindi siya nagtitipid talaga.
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Ganun lang talaga siya.
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But that was the biggest challenge
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in my interviewing career.
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paano ako mabubuhay dito?
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equipped ka with research, di ba?
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Sister Christine,
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galing po kayo sa isang may kayang pamilya.
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Bakit niyo po pinili mag-madre?
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ano po yung ganun?
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she started to speak about love.
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That's how you broke the wall.
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I made her talk about
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love of God, etc.
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And I learned so much.
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I started to relax.
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Na-in-love ho kayo
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bago ho kayo nag-madre?
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we will be right back.
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Hindi ko malilimutan yun.
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At nakapag-usap nga kayo.
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Nakapag-usap kami.
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And when people say,
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what was your best interview?
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And I don't know if you're gonna ask me.
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I always say that interview.
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Because I thought
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it was going to be
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the worst interview
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I would do in my life.
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sinabi ko na ito last vlog ko,
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I think it was Anderson Cooper
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who mentioned before that
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as an interviewer,
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you're given a certain amount of time
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to break through the walls
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of your interview.
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Parang everyone has walls,
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everyone has an ego,
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as an interviewer,
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to remove all that
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and make that person trust you
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with your life story.
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And when you do a live interview,
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doon ang napakahirap.
23:19.7
Because breaking that,
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Some people just decide,
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just choose to go for it
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after three to five minutes.
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Meron din naman malas.
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Natatapos ang pag-uusap nyo,
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hindi pa rin nagbumukas.
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Ang sinasabi ko parati,
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don't blame yourself.
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That's why when you say,
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what is the best interview?
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Thank you for that.
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I'll keep that in mind.
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Kaninong showbiz breakup
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Kasi you've tackled
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talagang inupuan nyo pa
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Kaninong showbiz breakup,
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couple that comes to mind
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Danielle and Catherine.
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I did an interview with
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Nanghingi pa ako ng adobo
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Hindi ako ready doon.
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11 years together and...
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And you're also a fan.
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In that interview,
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Luis, tinanong ko si Danielle,
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what is worse than betrayal?
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I remember that question.
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What is worse than betrayal?
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Ang ganda-ganda ng sagot,
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yun ang take away ko
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doon sa pag-uusap na yun,
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Yung, to be forgiven,
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Naintindihan ako.
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Pagkatapos ng kasalanan ko.
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a long conversation I had
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Come to think about it.
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having come from that interview,
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It was going to go smooth.
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It was a misreading.
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babalikan ko lang.
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And I'm sure you get this.
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Kay nanay, I'm sure.
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Pag kunwari may atraso tayo
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sa mga nanay natin,
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mas gugustuhin natin
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na bulyawan tayo.
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Because it ends there.
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Pero, for example,
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Tapos sabihin ng nanay mo,
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Kasi there's a bit more behind it
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it's more of disappointment.
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bigyan ka ng isang matinding sabon
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instead of just saying na,
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May bit-bit sa'yo yun.
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that I put you through it.
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The idea na idinamay kita.
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Kasi when you forgive,
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when you forgive,
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you're literally saying,
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Kahit ang sinaktan mo,
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yung nagpapatawad.
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And that's tough.
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Ito ng fast talk,
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Ready ka na, Tito Boy.
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Una-una, mabilis lang ito.
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Kung gamit ka sa banyo, ano ka?
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gaano ka ka-loyal?
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Complete the statement.
26:38.7
Sana pagising ko blank.
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Sana pagising ko,
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ay alam ko ang kakainin ko.
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Last time na umiyak ka.
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Second to the last time na umiyak ka.
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It was about nanay.
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I delivered a speech before students.
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At napunta na naman ako.
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My discourse led me to maternal love.
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Pag ikunikwento ko ng nanay,
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Last prayer mo na tinupad ni Lord?
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Sabi ko bago kumalis ng Maynila,
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Lord, give me the words
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sa pag-uusap namin ni Luis.
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That's also a prayer.
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Right before a big hosting gig.
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Lord, give me the words to say.
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Give me a bit of humor
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or the gift of gab, if you will.
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I still pray that every single time.
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wala nang happiness ngayon.
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Walang happiness.
27:25.7
Sex or chocolate?
27:31.7
Aanin ko naman yung chocolates.
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Tito Boy, kung sa kasakali man,
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dibigyan ka pa ng buhok, anong gusto mo?
27:35.7
Isa sa taas o dalawa sa gilid?
27:39.7
Kasi ordinaryo na yung isa sa taas.
27:41.7
Tito Boy, isang malaking butas ng ilong
27:44.7
Alam mo, I'd like to try tatlo.
27:47.7
Tito Boy, isang malaking nipple sa harap
27:50.7
Ay, gusto ko yung lima sa likod.
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Ako naging interview siya.
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Pagbigyan mo naman ako.
28:02.7
Luis ang pipiliin ko.
28:03.7
PJ, naiintindihan mo yan?
28:05.7
Tito Boy, thank you.
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Thank you for being, although I never took your classes,
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thank you for being a mentor.
28:12.7
Thank you for being a friend to me, to Jesse, to my family.
28:16.7
And thank you for being an icon na for us hosts
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na it's easy to look up to you.
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Because hindi ka maramot.
28:22.7
Hindi ka maramot sa alam mo.
28:23.7
Hindi ka maramot sa napagdaanan mo.
28:24.7
And you're more than willing to share so that everyone excels.
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And thank you for this interview, Tito Boy.
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Last, advice mo na lang sa akin din.
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Just keep searching.
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Searching and searching.
28:33.7
Tito Boy, thank you for being here.
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Maraming salamat.
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Ikasama dyan dito.
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Maraming salamat po sa inyong lahat.
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Maraming salamat po sa inyong lahat.
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At Tito Boy, I will end the show with a few words of wisdom.
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So, ito po ang Luis Lessons Words of Wisdom.
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You know this, Tito Boy.
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Naiya ka nga kanina.
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Minsan, hindi nila alam kung ano talagang pinagdarahanan mo.
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Minsan, hindi po nila alam kung gaano talaga kasakit.
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Minsan, nagtataka sila kung bakit, bakit lumalayo.
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Hindi nila alam kung gaano kahirap talaga.
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Pero, minsan, kailangan mo talagang lumayo.
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Pero, meron naman ko din ito.
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Alam niyo po ito, words of wisdom.
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Minsan, hindi nila alam kung bakit parang ilag ako sa tao.
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Minsan, malayo ka.
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Lumalayo ka dahil may dahilan ka.
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Minsan, hindi kumpleto ang iyong pakikiharap sa tao.
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Minsan, hindi kasing higpit ang iyong pagyakap.
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Kasi, may pig sa ako.
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I love you, Tito Boy!
29:52.7
Thank you for being here sa Luis listeners.
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Thank you very much.
29:55.7
Luis listeners, marami salamat.
29:57.7
Like, share, subscribe.
29:58.7
Kunong, I'll treasure this interview din.
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May isa akong interview with Baron.
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And he had so many stories.
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Sabi ko kay Baron, this is one interview that I did not just simply enjoy.
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It's an interview I treasured.
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And this is exactly right there na isang experience na I will forever treasure.
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Treasure you, Luis.
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Thank you, Tito Boy.
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Luis listeners, thank you for watching.
