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na pag-usapan ang labing limang taon na sa showbiz ni Sian bilang aktor, direktor at manunulat
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Pati na ang kanyang mga pinagdaanan hanggang sa kanyang kasalukuyang estado
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Hindi rin na iwasang halungkatin ang naging hiwalayan nila ni Kim
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Paano siya nag-cope up sa pagtatapos ng labing dalawang taong relasyon nila
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ng naturang ABS-CBN na aktres
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Ayon kay Sian, ang kanyang ina na si Marian ang naging katuwang niya upang maghilom ang sakit na nararamdaman
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My mom, she advises
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me to stay away from the news
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from all social media platforms
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because things were getting too
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She also advised me not to mind
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all the fake news
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and the things people are saying about me
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we know the truth
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and that's all that matters
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She also said that if
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people like to believe all
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this, then there's
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nothing I can do about it
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She's my support, my pillar, the wall I lean on
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Even until now, I'm lucky that she's a strong woman
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Other people might have broken down because of what's happening
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She's been getting harmful
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Below the belt messages, even threats
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For some reason, people got hold of her number
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For some reason, people got a hold of her number
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For some reason, people got a hold of her number
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So, the number of her mother is being taken away
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So, the number of her mother is being taken away
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Add to that, her family is getting more
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Add to that, her family is getting more
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because of the issue
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I just want to explain
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this well and give it some context
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this well and give it some context
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so people will understand
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so people will understand
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Our fans, I don't even call them fans before
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Our fans, I don't even call them fans before
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They eventually became our friends
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They became family
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Have my mom's number
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For the past 12 years, we were okay
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For the past 12 years, we were okay
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She was always just a text away from our followers
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She was always just a text away from our followers
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All of a sudden, this happened
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Kim and I broke up
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I just don't understand why these people we know
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I just don't understand why these people we know
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are now going out of their way to say hurtful words to my mother
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are now going out of their way to say hurtful words to my mother
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Why is this in English?
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We gave a reason for the split
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We gave a reason for the split
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Di kailangan himayin.
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We were very sad, of course.
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There were people we trusted.
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We considered them family.
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My mom had to change her number.
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We don't even talk about it in the house anymore.
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She just tells me,
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As long as we know the truth,
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we don't have to play this game with them.
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Ang galit ko magbasa pala, no?
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Itong kaugnay o kasunod nito,
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sinagot ni Sian tungkol sa steak rumor
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na lumalabas noon sa vlog ni Ogie Diaz.
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Ayon sa kwento ni Ogie,
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nagpaluto si Sian kay Kim ng steak.
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Excited pa raw si Kim na ipagluto ang dating boyfriend
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matapos daw kumain ni Sian doon
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na nito sinabing maghihiwalay na sila.
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Sa panayam ng taga-inquirer, mga kaibigan,
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maring pinabulaanan ni Sian na may ganong eksena.
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There's no truth to it.
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I don't see where it's coming from.
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It is because people are using us for entertainment.
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I cannot orchestrate that.
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I wasn't the one who initiated the breakup.
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All these fake news, all these dagdagbawas,
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are just too much already.
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May naglabasan din kaugnay
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ng pagkatuklas ng netizen sa bagong karelasyon ni Sian
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sa film producer na si Iris Lee.
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Tinawagan umano ni Sian si Kim
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upang sabihing maaari nang i-anonsyo ni Kim
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na may bagong girlfriend na si Sian.
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Nilinaw ni Sian na totoong tinawagan niya si Kim
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tungkol sa kanilang breakup.
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Ngunit iba umano ang konteksto nito
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kumpara sa lumabas na balita.
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Paliwanag ni Sian.
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When this story first came to me,
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I didn't understand it.
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To be honest, there's also no truth to it.
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But I'll say this.
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The truth is that I really did call Kim.
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When we parted ways,
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there were various stories coming out.
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Some parties are purposely becoming noisy.
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This was also the time when my family started getting messages
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that were below the belt.
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If I may give an example for the sake of context,
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there was an instance when they said,
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Sana mamatay na ang lola mo.
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They even brought up her cancer.
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Masama nga naman to.
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Mga kaibigan, parang foul na talaga yun.
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Foul na yun, mga kaibigan.
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Dinama yung lola eh.
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This was from a supporter
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whom we know and eventually became like family.
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It had already gotten a way out of hand
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during the two weeks since we broke up.
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So I had to give her a call.
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This was around November.
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I was actually begging Kim,
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saying we should release a statement
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that we've already gone our separate ways.
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So I had to give her a call.
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That we separated on good terms
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and walang sigawan.
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Of course, there were tears
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pero walang masamang tinapay.
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I said, can we just release it?
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A lot of people are getting dragged into this,
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including my mom and my grandmother.
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I begged her that both of us could release a statement
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but she said, not yet
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because they're doing the press launch of her series.
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I said, but this isn't work-related.
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That's the truth to it.
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I don't want any conflict between us.
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My intention now is to tell the truth
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that I called to beg her.
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But she said, in time.
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I guess by that she meant late December,
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before Christmas.
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I don't know why they decided for us to do it then.
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I was just glad that we both got
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to release statements.
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I guess some people, whoever they are,
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wants us fighting.
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We haven't spoken after I begged for the statement.
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But we are on good terms.
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From the time we separated, we were okay.
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kinumpirman ni Sian na may namamagitan
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na nga sa kanila ni Iris
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sa eksklusibong panayam niya
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sa Esquire Philippines.
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Inusisa ng online magazine si Sian
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kung may katotohanan,
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kung may katotohanan na mga naglalabas
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ang espikulasyon na may relasyon sila ni Iris.
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Diretong sagot niya,
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Yes, I'm seeing Iris.
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Just to clear everything,
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to clear all the speculations
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we're seeing each other
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and we are very happy.
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Sabi ni Sian sa Esquire Philippines,
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nagdesisyon siyang magsalita
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halos limang buwan matapos
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ang kontrobersyal na announcement
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ng breakup nila ni Kim.
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Ito raw ay upang bigyang lina
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sa Esquire Philippines.
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Ito raw ang mga haka-haka
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sa dahilan na paghihiwalay nila
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ng dating nobya na wala namang
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Alright, mga kaibigan.
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syempre mga kaibigan,
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syempre, one part of the story yun, di ba?
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Yung sa atin, mga kaibigan,
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nulook after tayo kay Kim
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kasi ganun tayo mga Pilipino eh.
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Kahit naman ako, feminist, di ba?
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Yung laging iniisip ko,
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babae rin, na masasaktan, di ba?
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yun na yung laging iniisip mo.
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Pero, kudos kay, ano,
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kay Sian, speaking out about
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nalinawan tayo na,
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naging gentleman naman pala siya eh.
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Of course, masakit para kay Kim siguro
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kasi minahal niya talaga
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12 years ba naman eh, minahal niya talaga.
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But then again, syempre,
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si Sian has his own reasons, di ba?
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Siguro, alam niyo minsan ang relasyon,
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hindi nasusukat sa tagal talaga eh.
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Kahit gaano katagal na yung relasyon niyo,
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mga kaibigan, ng partner mo,
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kahit gaano katagal yan,
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hindi mo masusukat talaga yan sa tagal.
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Hindi mo pwedeng sabihin na matatalian mo
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yung pag-iisip ng isang tao.
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kung nag-grow old na siya.
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May mga bagay na hindi angkop para sa plano niya.
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Hindi angkop yung direction niya sa direction mo.
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imbis na magkasiraan kayo along the way
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kasi meron kayong magkaibang tatahaking landas.
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Hindi siya pwedeng sumama dito sa landas na to.
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Yung personality niya, hindi mo siya pwedeng sumama.
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Hindi mo siya pwedeng nalain dito sa way na to.
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May ganun talaga.
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tayo umahanga kay Siya na kinausap niya na maayos.
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That's the better way.
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relationship always takes two to tango.
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Kasi kung si Kim, mga kaibigan, ang iniisip niya,
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it's always career.
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Minamaximize niya rin yung career niya eh.
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Kasi naiisip din niya na darating ang time na malalaos din siya.
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Darating ang time na lahat ng artista ang kinang ng bituin,
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ano natin, yun yung,
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ibig sabihin, yung ating, ah,
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sabi nga ni, ano, ni
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Swanee, eh, sabi ni Swanee,
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so, totoo pala yung steak.
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Well, yung konteksto ng kwento, eh,
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hindi naman, ano, hindi naman nakipaghiwalay dahil sa pagkaluto ng steak yun yata.
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So, I think, baka totoo kang kumain talaga, no? Pero,
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eh, hindi nga, ano, eh,
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kung naiintindi mo yung naratiman ni Siya, hindi, hindi, hindi, hindi, hindi, hindi, hindi, hindi...
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na siyan, hindi, hindi totoo, no?
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ibang, ano talaga,
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ginawa ng istorya.
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Anyway, mga kaibigan, ano ba naman nga
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kasi kaya ito yun eh, ang babae, sinasabi ko
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sa inyo, nakakatakot, saktan.
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Pasintabi sa mga girls
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ko na mga kamabwa,
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ang babae, nakakatakot, saktan niya, kasi
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totoo naman, di ba?
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Pag sinaktan mo yan,
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ako, hindi pwedeng ganun-ganun
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lang. Kaya ito mas sa lalaki, di ba?
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pag inagaw ng ibang, magbubug-bug ka, di ba?
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Magbubug-bug ka eh.
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Nagwawala ka. Ganun sa
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babae, ganun din.
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Kim, maganda siya, bata pa siya.
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So, parang, ang pangiting na
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nahabul-habulin niya talaga si Sigean sa dami
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ng lalaki sa showbiz.
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Di ba? At yung si Catherine Bernardo,
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yung pogi-pogi ni Daniel, di ba?
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Pero nalaman niya, ang babae
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ka, sige, ako rin, di ba? Akala mo,
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ikaw lang ba maraming manili, ano? Maraming
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yung mahabol sa'yo? Paraming
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naniligaw sa'kin. Hindi niya pinapansin,
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di ba? Mga ganun yan eh.
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So, bottom line, whether pinagluto
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o sa hindi, eh part na yun
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Di ba? Para sa'kin. The big issue,
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ang pinakamagandang tingnan natin dito,
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pangit talaga yung
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dinamay yung family
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ni Sigean, yung sinabi ang mamatay na
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lola mo, di ba? Kasi
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mayroon lang, alam yung tao
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sa pamilya mo eh, nakapag-intrude
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na siya sa family mo, nakakilala because
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of, dahil sa pagiging
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mabait mong, di ba?
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kanila, naging mabait ka sa umahanga
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sa'yo. Kinaibigan mo, then
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later on, idadamay sa sabihin
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mamatay na lola mo. Di ba?
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Dahil may cancer. Ang pangit
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nun, kahit sa inyong mangyari, yung pangit.
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Yun ang pangit nito sa
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pangyayari na to. With regard sa
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steak naman, I think ready eh. Kaya
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naman bumili ni Sigean siguro na sapong
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steak, ibalik niya dun sa bahay
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Kung ako, ganun, susumbatan ako albawa
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at sitext mo si Kim.
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Talaga bang sinusumbat mo
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sa akin yung steak? Order ako, isang
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kahon, di ba? Padala lang kita.
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Di ba? Baka ma, kung ako
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ha, kung ako lang yun, talaga bang
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yung steak eh, susumbat mo pa sa akin?
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Pabadala na lang kita, di ba? Huwag na tayo
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Parang ganun. Anyway,
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syempre, alam nyo,
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curiosity yan eh.
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minamind na mga tao.
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Kaya gusto ng mga
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manunulat yan, kasi
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pag-uusapan, di ba?
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So, I think, si Sigean naman,
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dapat siguro sa kanya,
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kasi eh, hindi na mamatay ang karirin niya
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Hindi na mamatay, umiingay eh.
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Dahil lang dyan, lalo na nagsalita na siya.
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And of course, mga kaibigan,
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pananaw, ito yung gusto
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Sian Lim, o, director.
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Di ba? Hindi naman siya naghanap
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Hindi naman siya naghanap ng ibang
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kadahilanan or rason dyan. Di ba?
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dito yung direction niya eh.
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sa pagdedirect siguro,
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sa paggawa ng pelikula, business type siguro siya eh.
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Mukhang business type of person
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Yan siguro ang hindi nila
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ni Kim Ju. Sa tingin ko lang ah.
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sila naman ay may mga sariling isip na,
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mayayaman naman niya mga yan,
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at least nagkaroon ng linaw kasi
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na-feature ko rin po dito yan,
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itinika ni Ogie Diaz.
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Kaya at least, binigyan ko lang po ng dalawang muka
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ang kwento dahil baka nakikita na si Yan
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pinupost natin dito
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na nagpaluto si Ano
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ng, nagpaluto siya ng steak.
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So at least ngayon, meron na akong
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pambalanse. Ito yung sagot
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na si Yan Lim, yung side niya,
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na hindi naman po
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ito yung mga, yung dapat na maging
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ikanga, ng kwento
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at tungkol po dyan,
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sa istorya ng steak.
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So kayo, ano po ang inyong
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masasabi dyan sa paksang ating tinalakay?
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Eh, comment down below nyo yan.
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