00:28.2
She's my friend before.
00:30.0
You two are friends?
00:31.8
Friend of friend.
00:32.7
Her best friend is my friend.
00:41.4
How can we help you, Mr. Vanhoof?
00:44.1
I hope to get a part back from what I ever gave.
00:47.6
You want to get your money back from?
00:49.8
From my ex-girlfriend, yes.
00:51.6
What happened, sir?
00:52.7
What I know is she scant on me.
00:54.7
As I know from now, she lives with another man all of the time.
01:00.0
The people, my friends, I learn to know now.
01:03.7
They see her driving around with him.
01:06.1
Even before, even the friends from her before,
01:08.9
told me like, she scammed on you.
01:12.7
She never leave the other man.
01:14.4
So, that's what I know.
01:16.2
The 4.4 million pesos that you did mention,
01:19.1
was that in the form of cash or things like cars, jewelries?
01:23.3
I sent it cash and then she buy jewelries, car, many things.
01:28.1
Was it given one time or...?
01:33.5
Did she ask for it or you gave it voluntarily?
01:35.5
She asked for it, yes.
01:36.5
I've proved about that.
01:39.0
When was the last time you spoke to her, sir?
01:41.0
I tried to call her three weeks ago, four weeks ago, by mobile.
01:46.0
I was still in my country and she picked up the call because my ID hidden.
01:52.0
Now, she talk not good to me.
01:54.0
Just what she tell me is like, who the **** are you?
01:56.5
I don't want to talk to you.
01:59.0
Stop contacting me.
01:59.7
Stop contacting me.
02:01.2
What was the reason?
02:02.2
She have a new boyfriend already, as I know, from America.
02:06.2
Is it okay if I will ask you how did you come to know her?
02:10.7
I know her first time in 2020 from TikTok.
02:17.2
That's the first meeting and then...
02:18.2
You saw her TikTok video?
02:21.2
And you communicated to her that you wanted to talk to her?
02:24.7
And she gave her your number?
02:27.7
After we have Facebook.
02:28.7
And she gave her number to you?
02:30.7
And she's here right now with us.
02:32.7
I try to contact him all the time.
02:34.7
I don't know him.
02:35.2
But you know, all the time when we talk, he's just rolling the conversation again and again and again and again and again.
02:41.7
Because it's a reality.
02:42.7
Many people, many people...
02:43.7
I try and I giving you all the time like, okay, you can explain, you can explain.
02:48.7
And then all the time, you're just rolling the conversation.
02:50.7
Even that's past already and then you're always like...
02:58.2
One week before I went to Cebu last year.
03:03.7
Do you have a picture?
03:07.2
No, it's not your helmet.
03:08.7
It's going to be the same as my clothes.
03:10.2
No, that's not your helmet.
03:10.7
It's going to be the same like my clothes.
03:11.7
Yeah, it's just lucky he buy the same clothes as you.
03:14.2
He buy the same...
03:15.7
Maybe he buy the same helmet as me also or whatever.
03:19.7
I have the proofs, the pictures.
03:20.7
My helmet is there.
03:22.7
Same like my clothes.
03:23.7
I saw in one time after when we are married.
03:28.2
A picture popped up from Francis.
03:30.7
Same clothes as me.
03:31.7
Who's Francis, sir?
03:32.7
The father of her baby.
03:34.2
The father of the baby?
03:37.2
He's cheating on me.
03:38.2
He made the baby while we have a relationship together.
03:42.2
I give the party that time.
03:44.2
She asked me for the party, birthday party.
03:47.2
So I paid it and he was there and...
03:50.2
That time, I meet that guy.
03:52.2
He's gone for four months.
03:53.7
And then he said to me that he been quarantined here in Manila for three months.
03:57.7
Because he's positive like getting COVID.
04:00.2
Like he can't contact me because he can't use the mobile.
04:03.7
While you are in a relationship with him, you met another guy?
04:14.2
So the problem was the communication.
04:15.2
Also August, she meet another guy.
04:17.2
Sir, I just want to be fair here, right?
04:20.2
She said you were still in a relationship.
04:24.2
But there was a time that you were not contacting her anymore.
04:27.2
Yes, because he was his wife here in Manila.
04:30.7
And the reason why he's not contacting you anymore?
04:32.7
Because he was with his wife here in Quezon City.
04:37.7
And you know that he's married?
04:42.7
That's why we broke up.
04:43.7
That's why I met that guy.
04:44.7
So he never told you that he's married?
04:46.7
He told me that he's divorced 12 years.
04:51.7
I didn't agree to get the fake marriage if I know.
04:54.7
A woman won't wear the gown without...
05:00.2
You know I was married.
05:02.2
In the beginning not.
05:04.2
It's okay, auntie.
05:05.2
I promise you that the birth paper is coming.
05:06.2
Just give me a few days.
05:07.2
Just give me these days.
05:08.2
Just give me these days.
05:09.2
I went to the attorney or not?
05:10.2
I'm not with you that time.
05:12.2
Sir, what is it that you want from her now?
05:14.2
I want to get back everything that I...
05:16.2
And if really need, going to jail or whatever.
05:19.2
But I not agree this.
05:20.2
We bought last August two pendant, necklace.
05:25.2
She told me she sell it.
05:27.2
She told me she sell it.
05:28.2
But they saw the motorbike driving with Francis and she drive it.
05:31.2
I have the proof.
05:32.2
I get the message from two weeks ago.
05:35.2
They saw you driving with the motorbike.
05:37.2
Sir, let me ask you this.
05:38.2
While you were giving her the money, which amounted to 4.4 million in the process,
05:43.2
did she ask for it or you gave it to her as a gift?
05:46.2
I never give it as a gift.
05:47.2
How was it given?
05:48.2
She asked for it all the time?
05:50.2
Before you gave her the money?
05:52.2
I gave it for free.
05:56.2
I lost my job because of you.
05:58.2
Because you get jealous with my boss.
06:01.2
They were flirting together and I saw the message.
06:05.2
I even give you the iCloud.
06:07.2
You can open my iCloud.
06:09.2
That's why I saw the message from he tell you I love you.
06:12.2
That's why you message him.
06:14.2
Because the message between you and it is about flirting and I love you and be with me.
06:20.2
You can show it the proof.
06:21.2
I still have it in my...
06:22.2
I forget my iPad.
06:23.2
If you have the evidence, show it here right now.
06:25.2
I would like to ask it for the third time.
06:27.2
Each time you send her money, did she ask for it or you gave it voluntarily as a form of gift?
06:33.2
She asked for it.
06:34.2
Most of the time, she asked me like I need money for the rent.
06:36.2
I need money for the bills.
06:38.2
Because you promised her.
06:42.2
If she asked for it, then you have the right to recoup those monies.
06:45.2
But if you gave it voluntarily because you love her, because you would like to help her,
06:50.2
then it's a different story.
06:52.2
Most of the time, she asked for it.
06:53.2
Oh, those monies came from you?
06:56.2
Happy Heart's Day.
06:57.2
Happy Heart's Day.
06:58.2
That money going to buy us a car.
06:59.2
It's for the car.
07:00.2
That's for the car.
07:01.2
And he told me to...
07:02.2
It's a Valentine's Day, Asawa.
07:03.2
And you told me to do that just to take a picture because you want to post that one
07:10.2
Don't give me the proof about that.
07:13.2
Ma'am Vanessa, he said aside from cash, he also gave you things.
07:18.2
He gave you in kind like jewelries and motorcycles and stuff like that.
07:23.2
Do you still have those?
07:26.2
Can we see the necklace?
07:27.2
I bought it, but she bought it for me and I...
07:32.2
From the money that you gave her?
07:35.2
And she bought you a necklace?
07:39.2
Even the pendant, but I never see the pendant just in picture.
07:42.2
She wear it with another man.
07:44.2
So ma'am, I would presume that from my understanding, he bought you jewelries and motorcycles?
07:49.2
And do you still have those?
07:53.2
The only one that I have left to get back is the one that can be still recouped, which
07:56.2
is the motorcycle and the jewelries, right?
07:57.2
If possible, even the money.
07:58.2
She work on TikTok now.
07:59.2
I know her earnings.
08:00.2
She make between 200 and 500 thousand.
08:01.2
I lost all my gifts, sir, because of him.
08:02.2
And he blacking me.
08:03.2
I have all the proof.
08:04.2
How did you know that she's making that much money, sir?
08:05.2
You can recount it.
08:07.2
Sir, I noticed that you have with you an envelope full of documents.
08:08.2
The payments, all I ever did to her.
08:09.2
All the monies that you remitted to her?
08:11.2
All the money that you remitted to her?
08:13.2
All the money that you remitted to her?
08:15.2
All the money that you remitted to her?
08:18.2
What happened to you?
08:20.2
What happened to us?
08:21.2
And also like, I was also blackmilled by him.
08:22.2
So I was not guilty if I stay with him.
08:23.2
Oh, look at these documents.
08:24.2
I'm not pulling it.
08:25.2
All these amounts to 4.4 million.
08:28.2
Ma'am, how did you spend the 4.4 million pesos?
08:30.2
Ma'am, how did you spend the 4.4 million?
08:31.2
We have a property.
08:32.2
We have a property.
08:33.2
We have a land, but I don't own it.
08:36.2
You don't own it.
08:37.2
You don't own it?
08:39.2
What do you know?
08:43.2
4.4 million pesos.
08:45.0
We have a property.
08:46.7
We have two land.
08:48.4
Oh, so you still have those properties?
08:51.1
House and land in one land.
08:52.1
And then there's the other property?
08:53.1
Na empty land lang talaga.
08:56.5
And where is that located at?
08:59.1
Pagadian City po.
09:01.4
So you can still sell those properties?
09:04.7
Sir, kaya ko pong ibigay lahat.
09:08.6
No, I don't need the land.
09:09.9
Your family live there.
09:11.5
Her grandma live inside the house.
09:13.5
Why did you give it to her in the first place?
09:15.0
It's not about giving.
09:16.2
We have talked about it.
09:18.0
You talked about it?
09:19.5
And it was kind of cheap.
09:20.9
We have planned to stay together.
09:22.2
It was one year ago.
09:23.5
Married, settled down.
09:26.2
Because she promised me to be with me and stay with me.
09:28.9
How much is the value of those two properties?
09:30.9
That's 100,000 peso.
09:32.3
That's for one property.
09:33.2
And then the second property, how much?
09:34.6
The land was 50,000.
09:36.7
This is the new girl.
09:37.8
Halos maka pareho lang silang payat.
09:40.4
Be careful with those jewels.
09:41.5
Did he give it to you?
09:43.7
That's your money?
09:45.0
He might want it back from you.
09:46.7
You know that, right?
09:48.7
How did you meet Mr. Dirk Vanhoof?
09:50.5
I met him because we have a eye on one of you.
09:53.6
That's all right.
09:54.8
She's my friend before.
09:56.3
Oh, you two are friends?
09:58.3
Is that all right?
09:59.2
Her best friend is my friend.
10:00.8
We know each other, yes.
10:02.1
Of course, because we were...
10:03.3
So, while the two of them were in a relationship,
10:06.7
you came into the picture and took her away from him?
10:11.5
First meet is they are already broke up.
10:14.2
That time we are settling in barangay.
10:15.9
They are staying together already.
10:18.7
The two properties?
10:22.3
And how much is the car?
10:23.5
On the accord, 210,000.
10:25.8
No, no, no, no, no.
10:27.5
I paid it less more.
10:30.1
Because I lied to you because you know.
10:32.2
You say, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
10:33.9
I have the conversation about the car still.
10:36.7
And you paid it 140,000 pesos.
10:39.6
That's what I told you.
10:41.2
She will give back to you the two properties plus the car,
10:45.0
would that be enough or...
10:46.1
It's not enough money.
10:47.0
More properties and money and maybe the jewelry.
10:50.1
I want the money and the jewelry, yes.
10:52.0
You want, really, sir, is everything that you gave her from day one up to the time when you broke up.
10:59.7
You want everything back.
11:01.4
No, I cannot recoup everything.
11:03.0
I know about the 4.4 million, 4.5 million.
11:05.3
So, out of that 4.4 million, how much are you expecting to get back?
11:10.2
You know what, sir?
11:11.0
This is not the first time that this kind of situation were being presented to us.
11:15.2
Because for me, if you gave someone something as a gift because you love her, you like her,
11:21.2
you're not supposed to get it back.
11:22.6
Unless if that girl lied to you big time like, I'm single, but she's not.
11:28.7
And she keeps asking you money.
11:30.8
And then you keep giving her money and those monies that you've been giving her,
11:34.0
and she gives it to her boyfriend.
11:36.9
If that happens, then you have the right to get all your money.
11:41.0
Chairman Umpad, good afternoon to you, sir.
11:44.1
Sir, can we get an update?
11:45.6
I'm trying to make a, you know, settle.
11:49.4
The girl is willing to return the...
11:52.0
The two properties, right?
11:54.4
And even the car, right?
11:55.4
The motorbike, I remember the motorbike.
11:57.5
The motorbike, it's already sold.
11:59.7
The proceeds would go back to him, right?
12:02.6
For me, even if they transfer it to their name, it's okay.
12:06.9
I'll just get a permit.
12:08.5
I'm sorry to you, ma'am.
12:09.6
I really don't know you.
12:11.0
I hope you don't mind.
12:12.0
Are you coaching him, teaching him to do what he's doing now?
12:16.5
I haven't told him, just let them.
12:20.1
Pagsalit tayo natin, mga netizen.
12:21.6
Ms. Arlene from Matangas, good afternoon to you, ma'am Arlene.
12:24.4
Good afternoon, sir.
12:26.8
For me, it's really unfair that you give something,
12:30.1
especially material things, to a person or to your loved one,
12:33.6
and then when the time comes that you don't have any feelings anymore
12:37.8
or romantic feelings anymore to that person,
12:41.0
bigla mo nalang po siyang babawiin dahil lang hindi na kayo okay.
12:45.2
Parang napaka-unfair po, no?
12:48.1
That's what I was telling you a while ago, sir.
12:50.5
For her, for Ms. Arlene, it's unfair.
12:52.7
When you love each other, everything was okay.
12:55.5
She loves you, you love her.
12:57.3
And this is where the gifts were being given by you to her
13:02.5
because of that love that you guys were sharing.
13:05.4
And then now that you don't love her anymore,
13:08.0
then this is where you said,
13:09.7
give back everything that I've given you.
13:11.4
That's what Arlene was saying about.
13:13.2
Am I right, Ms. Arlene?
13:16.1
Sir, I asked earlier, Ms. Michelle,
13:18.2
if she really loves Mr. Dirk, Ms. Michelle.
13:22.2
You don't love him?
13:23.4
And why are you with him?
13:24.8
I love him, of course.
13:26.4
But now you don't love him.
13:28.7
You said you don't love him.
13:31.5
What made you love him?
13:33.0
I don't know, because when I met him, he's a really good guy.
13:35.6
Like his sweet spark love.
13:40.7
Did you say spark plug?
13:48.1
What's your advice?
13:49.1
She wants the girl to return the property and he refused.
13:56.0
And then he walked out on that time.
13:57.8
He doesn't want to pay.
13:59.4
Michelle, kanina, tatagulugin ko muna.
14:01.7
Paano niyo maintindihan?
14:03.5
Tinanong ka ni Sherry kung mahal mo siya.
14:06.0
Sabi mo, heck no.
14:06.6
May mga staff din po na nakarinig.
14:08.6
I know they are joking.
14:09.7
May mga staff din po na nakarinig.
14:11.0
Kung midya-kumidya ka lang, pasti lang, ginawa nga naman.
14:14.2
Na, gigug mo mo siya o hindi?
14:16.3
Kanang tinuod ba?
14:17.9
Gigit sa kasing-kasing?
14:19.7
Hindi ka nagsalapi lang?
14:24.0
First niya, na had to sabwa.
14:25.5
He doesn't have money?
14:26.9
He was leaving me.
14:28.2
He's staying with you now?
14:32.0
She's now supporting you?
14:33.9
The first time I was here, yes.
14:35.6
Last December, January.
14:36.9
Then that's true love.
14:37.6
Or maybe you're just waiting
14:39.7
that she'll be able to recoup the money from her
14:42.3
and he'll give it to you.
14:44.6
Transfer it to you, no?
14:45.9
Sir, why not just say yes
14:47.5
to what she's trying to offer to you?
14:50.2
At least you have something better than nothing.
14:52.3
If I were you, I'll take it.
14:53.3
We can make an agreement to pay me back monthly
14:56.5
For me, my opinion is
14:58.3
the guy shouldn't ask for the return
15:01.8
of his whatever he give to the girl
15:04.4
because of course, it's gift
15:06.1
and they are in a relationship together
15:09.0
so I don't think it is necessary
15:11.9
to ask the person to give back.
15:15.5
If you're in a kind of relationship
15:17.0
or if you're married, it's 50-50.
15:19.2
I want to be fair again.
15:20.6
You knew in your heart that you're married
15:22.5
and despite the fact that you're married,
15:24.0
you contacted her, a single woman,
15:27.2
a Filipino woman,
15:28.1
and you contacted her to her TikTok account.
15:31.2
If you were married,
15:32.7
then you should not contact any girl whatsoever
15:36.8
or flirt with that girl
15:38.2
because you're married.
15:39.6
You have to be fair with your wife.
15:41.0
I agree with that.
15:41.8
In your case, you're already married.
15:43.2
You're tied up to your wife.
15:44.7
Now, you should not play around with girls.
15:47.3
Did your wife know about that?
15:49.0
She don't like it.
15:49.8
You offended your wife.
15:50.7
You hurt your wife's feelings.
15:52.6
Would you like to apologize to your wife?
15:53.8
Yeah, I did already.
15:55.3
I like you coming over to us
15:56.7
and thank you for your trust and confidence to my show.
15:58.8
The thing is, I don't see the sincerity.
16:01.1
As a matter of fact,
16:01.8
I am seeing dishonesty on your part.
16:04.4
You're not being honest to your wife
16:06.1
and you're not being honest to her.
16:08.2
you weren't honest to her
16:09.4
because the moment,
16:10.4
the first time you contacted her
16:11.9
and you told her,
16:12.9
hey, I'm married,
16:14.1
I don't know what would be her reaction.
16:17.5
The best thing for you
16:18.5
or anybody for that matter,
16:19.9
foreigners who would like to have a relationship
16:21.6
with Filipino women,
16:22.8
the least that you can do
16:23.9
is when you contact anybody here,
16:26.6
hey, hello, I'm married.
16:28.1
Anybody over there
16:29.5
would like to have a relationship with me
16:30.9
and then let's see what happens.
16:33.0
and she still took that offer,
16:36.0
then I'll be screaming on her.
16:38.2
But in this case,
16:39.3
you are the one who's being honest.
16:41.3
by loving someone,
16:42.4
you should commit your love.
16:43.8
And once you get married,
16:45.3
you should only love one person.
16:47.6
Filipinas deserves to be loved wholeheartedly.
16:50.6
No one deserves to be in a position
16:52.3
where you can love any woman
16:54.1
once you're tired of loving her,
16:56.1
you're tired of loving someone.
16:57.5
So once you love someone,
16:59.1
you should just love her.
17:01.0
You shouldn't love anybody else.
17:04.4
That's what I was saying.
17:05.5
We have the same opinion.
17:07.1
On a practical note,
17:09.1
to resolve this issue,
17:10.6
all the properties named after her,
17:14.1
kailangan i-benta na lang niya din noon
17:16.0
para wala na din gulo.
17:18.3
And then yung pera na makakuha
17:21.1
ng mga properties na yun
17:22.9
is ibigay na lang doon sa guy.
17:26.1
I'm willing to help you.
17:27.4
But to a certain extent,
17:28.9
I'm not going to help you
17:31.0
recouping 4.4 million exactly.
17:33.7
Her offer of the two properties,
17:35.6
signing the title over to you,
17:38.2
I think, for now,
17:39.5
that will suffice.
17:40.6
If you need some more,
17:41.7
that's why we have the barangay,
17:45.4
Van Hoop said that,
17:46.5
oh, give everything to her
17:47.7
and then he walked out on you.
17:50.7
he don't want to listen anymore.
17:52.7
He walked out on the time.
17:54.3
Alright, I will refer them back to you,
17:56.5
after talking to both of them.
17:59.3
Sir, kung gusto niyang balikan ko siya,
18:01.2
sana hindi niya ko sinira sa TikTok.
18:03.0
Kasi dati yung life ko,
18:05.4
nakakain naman ako.
18:06.3
What did you do to you on TikTok?
18:07.6
Makipag-pekebate lang po.
18:09.3
Pataasan ng gift,
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kung magkaka-gifter ka.
18:12.2
What is your opinion, Michelle?
18:15.3
You've been listening,
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you've been quiet.
18:18.0
Sinabihan ko sila siya na,
18:20.8
Huwag nang bawiin?
18:22.2
Kasi makikita pa naman niya yun eh.
18:24.3
Kaso, marami nag-pupor sa kanya.
18:27.2
Even ayaw nila ko,
18:28.7
ibigay ko po talaga yung,
18:30.3
para hindi na siya mangulit.
18:32.3
whether you like it or not,
18:33.3
she will give back to you
18:35.1
the properties and the car,
18:36.5
whether you like it or not,
18:39.1
Can you please stop barring me on TikTok
18:40.8
or making me bad all the people?
18:43.2
you're always blocking me on TikTok.
18:46.2
You even hacked my account
18:50.3
ino-open niya yung account ko
18:52.3
every day, every day,
18:53.4
nang bablock siya ng tao.
18:54.9
In-screenshot ko yun.
18:56.9
gagawin akong masama sa lahat ng tao.
18:59.1
Sana naman i-stop mo siya
19:00.3
kasi ikaw na girlfriend eh,
19:04.4
base sa mga sinasabi niya.
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hindi talaga ako,
19:09.5
wala talaga akong,
19:12.7
i-stop ko siya na mag,
19:14.1
ko anak kay Vanessa,
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magpunta dito ka,
19:17.1
so ayaw niya kasi,
19:18.8
yung family niya.
19:21.4
nag-promise siya sa akin,
19:23.7
Just stop hitting to other men.
19:25.7
Learn your lesson from this.
19:27.1
If you gave me the real marriage,
19:29.7
you're the one who gave the fake marriage.
19:37.3
Are you still married with your wife?
19:43.5
No, it's here in the Philippines.
19:45.1
She's from the Philippines.
19:45.4
You're married here in the Philippines.
19:47.5
And you're having a relationship with Michelle
19:49.1
while you're married.
19:50.8
Still to your wife.
19:51.6
And she's okay with her.
19:54.9
Does your wife know that
19:56.2
you're in a relationship with Michelle?
19:57.9
I am with Michelle, yes.
19:58.8
No, she don't like it, but...
19:59.9
She don't like it.
20:00.4
Because you're the boss.
20:02.7
I would like to end this conversation now
20:04.6
because I don't like what I'm hearing.
20:06.5
You're trying to play around with me.
20:07.2
You're cheating on your wife
20:09.1
and then you're having a relationship
20:11.1
with left and right
20:12.4
with different Filipinas
20:13.4
and then later on
20:14.3
after you're tired of the relationship,
20:18.3
oh, I don't like you anymore.
20:19.3
I want my money back.
20:21.8
I want my jewelry.
20:22.5
I want my money and car.
20:23.7
That doesn't really sound good.
20:26.4
I think she's not divorced.
20:27.9
That marriage is not fair.
20:30.6
She just spent her money.
20:32.3
I'm wearing a gown
20:33.5
that doesn't have a cuenta.
20:34.7
I'm not playing around.
20:36.5
I'm sorry for that.
20:37.6
Sir, you're playing around.
20:38.8
Whether you like it or not,
20:39.9
I have to say this straight up front,
20:41.6
straight to your face.
20:42.4
What really hurts me is
20:43.5
you're hiding it.
20:44.5
You know you're married
20:45.4
and then you flirt
20:47.1
and then you found her
20:48.3
and you weren't honest to her
20:50.2
and she thought all the while
20:51.8
that you were single.
20:52.7
That's why she accepted your proposal
20:54.9
until that you guys were in a relationship
20:57.5
and then you got tired of the relationship.
20:59.5
You want to move on
21:00.7
and that's where you said,
21:01.8
oh, I want to go to Tulfo
21:03.2
and I want to get some of the money I've given her.
21:06.5
are warning Michelle
21:07.9
that she has to be careful
21:12.3
and Mr. Dirk Vanhoof would say,
21:15.4
I don't like you anymore.
21:16.2
I have another girl.
21:17.2
Give me back all the money I've given you.
