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everything sobrang love na love ko siya
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so I had this girlfriend Uh 3 years and
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3 months kami I can consider her like
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Perfect for me hindi niya pinapatulan
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yyung pagiging radikal ko and she was
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like very understanding if hindi ko siya
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nabibigyan ng oras and all and Halos
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hindi ako nagkakaroon ng problema parang
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nabor ako siguro I think I got bor with
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our relationship Ayun ah he chick could
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First I can remember that vividly tumaw
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siya sa landline he met a girl and then
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classmate daw niya They went somewhere
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na parang occasion ganyan then sabay daw
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sila umuwi then the girl kiss him Hindi
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naman daw siya pumalag and he lik The
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Feeling G so iyak ako ng iyak for 2
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weeks iyak ako ng iyak Grabe yyung pain
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then for 2 weeks I was begging nag-beg
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ako na iwan mo na siya and he says Hindi
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ko kaya mahal ko kayo yung dalawa dahil
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ngya siya naman full-time student siya
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un like me I was an irregular student We
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don't see each other regularly Wang
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there are certain hours of the day lang
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and then not everyday kasi ako naman I
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have to go to school then I have to go
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to the office as well this happen in
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Pampanga and I have to go to Manila to
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pursue an actual career Iyung distance
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or proximity talaga namin in the time
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Mas lalo na lesson after 3 years still
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kami pa din tapos napaka toxic na rin
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relationship namin na pumasok ako school
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thesis namin non dami kong dalang books
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and then mga lap may isa akong laptop na
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dala tos ang bigat ng bag ko n parted
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ako sa niya pauwi Sabi ko ting mo sa
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saakay ng jeet ang sagot niya sa akin
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nakapasok ka nga ng dala mo lahat yan eh
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t's ngayon hindi ka na makauwi So ganun
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yyung klase ng relationship na meron
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kami na napaka-ungentleman niyang tao
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and then ito na na-meet ko na si
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unconditional love so meron meron akong
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nakilala sa work nung nasa Manila na ako
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siguro hot chick talaga siya e
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everyone wants her in the office It's G
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to be my clown in Lord I felt That Way
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na parang if I get this chick I'll be
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like king of the office sort of I
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pursued the girl sobrang unexpected I
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went to this event 5 day event as a
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contractual then doon ko siya na-meet n
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ko na siya then n Pauwi na ako I have
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this big duffle bag na the may backpack
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pa ang dala kasi makikitulog ako sa
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relative nearby d sa lugar nung event
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sabi ni niya Tulungan na kita Saan ka
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pupunta inabot niya yung bag Kinawa niya
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lahat Dal ako nay ako makasakay ng bus
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the following day nagkita na naman kami
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I don't know his name Pero k niya ako So
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I just call him babe so every time mo
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kasan mo siya babe B ganyan sa kanya
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pala mining well on my end is Wala lang
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so wala wala talaga sa time a na iniisip
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ko na mag-cheat ako after nitong event I
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won't see him anymore she got to notice
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me but she approached first naman parang
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yun ung moment na Hinihintay ko I took
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advantage of it Ayaw niya kasi don sa
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nanliligaw sa kanya So parang We made
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the deal gusto mo kunwari nililigawan
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kita pumayag siya and then you know
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things got a little bit serious So I
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told this chick na sabi ko alam mo may
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girlfriend ako eh Okay lang ba she was
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shocked siga after a couple of hours
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parang naging okay na it sa kanya lagi
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naman ako nasa Maynila Anyway and I
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don't go to Pampanga that of them so
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naging kami patapos na yung event parang
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2 days before attend so h natin niyang
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sakay ng B nilokong siya Sabi ko B kiss
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mo naman ako ganyan kilis niya ako smak
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lang ang masalang part doun is kinilig
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ako mayas ramdaman akong
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electricity the last day Sabi ko sa
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kanya uy sabi ni boss samahan mo ako may
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kukunin lang doon sa kwarto niya may
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Hotel nearby ayaw niya samahan ngya sabi
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niya Samahan mo kung Marami kasi may
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kukunin tayong gamit marami hindi ko
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kayo mag-isa nandon na sa room h ko lang
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iniisip yung boyfriend ko na wala lang
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akong pakong sa kanya sa nandun ako sa
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moment na yon na I'm really literally
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offering myself that's din lang ako din
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umuurong siya na umuurong sabi ko wala
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ka pala hindi Gan pala lalaki tat Balik
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na tayo doon so dala ko na yung mga
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gamit na dadalin naming pabalik then
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tinulak ni ako sa door parang yung
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parang movies kick is me torridly alam
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nagki-kiss kayo na humula kayo just to
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get air then he stop he Stop at sabi
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niya gusto kita Ayokong isipin mo na ito
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lang habol ko sayo please balik na muna
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tayo doon doun na shit may ganong lalaki
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I'll be honest it felt good kasi syempre
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like when I mention like everyone likes
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her in the office and then parang ako
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Iyung boyfriend niyan so I was able to
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manage that time Honestly kasi I was
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longing for the the attention and all
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Although og girlfriend was able to give
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that to be honest mas suset lang ako
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doon sa panandang Ligaya if I should say
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I held on to them for 2 months together
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h ko naiisip yung ginagawa ko eh na may
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masasaktan eh basta ang ano ko lang non
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I was happy So I just have to compete
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Parang That's how I felt and I feel I
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felt good I felt good na ang dami
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kagusto sa akin eh you know it's a
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crowning Glory for me na pag marami kang
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nagiging chicks Parang ang pogi mo eh
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umabot din ako ng point na Why are we
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doing this maay ko ba talaga si
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boyfriend maay ko ba talaga si wave sino
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ba talaga during the course nadam kami
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ni second girlfriend I was trying to
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What do I really want I asked og
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girlfriend na makol of muni in the
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meantime I told her that I needed time
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to think about our relationship when in
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fact Hindi niya rin naman naisip na may
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babae na pala ako ang loyality is Ah
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hindi pa ako sure sa kanya natatakot ako
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na baka pag pinili ko siya ma-hurt ako
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after si months pala kami okay mag-break
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kami so Lugi ako kasi I know na yung
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relationship C with the hot check is
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just temporary na In The End mas
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pipiliin ko pa rin talaga si og
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girlfriend kasi alam po naman na siya
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yung matin Nain maayos kasi ang Goal ko
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is ayoko na masaktan at that time na
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saisi ko ayoko mal lugi I don't want to
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lose someone ah na magba-back up sa akin
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in any case that you know hindi ko
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makita yyung gusto ko i wanted a
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fallback and Siya pa rin yung gusto ko
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during that time no guilt mostly an
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galit ako eh So bakit kasi gren ako ni
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boyfriend na gawin ' Bakit kasi hindi na
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lang niya ginawa yun from the start na
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Make Me Feel special na si babe without
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even me asking anything na hatid mo ako
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Wala talagang matic yan parang j-just
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ify ko sa ridic call kaya ko siya ginawa
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na parang kaya ako nagchi-cheer
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naman ko noon na ngayon ma-feel mo
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ngayon yung sakit guilt after na lang
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the second girl just wanted na kami na
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talaga yung magkatuloyan sort of she
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wanted me to break up with my original
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girlfriend we had like our third
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anniversary picture ni og girlfriend And
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then the second girl went to the
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Facebook post so she commented na ikaw
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ba Iyung girlfriend niya sa Pampanga
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kasi ako Iyung girlfriend niya dito sa
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manila and then they started to chat and
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they wanted to verify kung ano ba
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situation They were able to confirm na
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parang pinagsabay ko sila one ready day
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Pumunta siya sa bahay kakahatid lang
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saakin ni Babe non as in kaalis niya
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lang h ko siya pinapasok Kasi nga ano ko
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na rin nun eh Gusto ko na siyaang iwan
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sabi niya Do you still love me tapos
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sabi ko no Sabi ngya ano sure ka na sabi
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ko Unfair naman kasi kay babe he doesn't
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even know that you exist and I really
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love him sobrang bait niyang tao and he
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doesn't deserve na ganito talaga Umiyak
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siya non tos sabi niya pag-usapan natin
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to nagbe-bake siya sa labas ng guitar n
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bebeg siya isang palitan mo lang ano
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Kakalimutan ko talaga to lahat bis
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bumalik ka saakin magbabago ako Then
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sabi ko no it's too late kasi kung
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magbabago ka dapat Nood pa why now na
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may iba ng nagpapa saakin nung mga matol
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ko ng hinihingi SAO si pinipili ko then
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he was crying He left nagalit ako kay
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second girl kasi she knows her place
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supposedly she was not supposed to do
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that so I broke up with her and then
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Syempre si og girlfriend nagalit din
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talaga It Was Pretty obvious hindi niya
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kail sabihin na mag-break kami somehow I
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was hoping na matatang tanggap niya ako
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After All of this I was not able to win
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her Back And I felt so much guilt na
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parang Sabi ko I should stop and I
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should set her free kasi It's really my
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fault and unti-unti na lang si nagmmove
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on hindi na rin yata magiging okay kung
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magkakabalikan kami because I know to
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myself that This is not the first time
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that I betrayed her biglaan nakita ko na
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lang siya kumukuha ng t sa ano
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nag-text yung mom niya sa akin na oh
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paalis na ng bansa si boyfriend n
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pakilam ak sa kanya I went there sa
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bahay nila nung day before siya umalis
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like sabi siya na ano parang gusto niya
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na daw munang mag-move on Hwag ko na raw
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siyang i-keep hanging do nagano yyung
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guilt na He's still having on kahit na
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ganon yung nangyari Eh willing siyang
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patawarin akoo Wala na i was young I was
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really dumb probably I was not able to
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get the grasp of having someone for a
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long time kasi parang I just want to be
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happy right this moment and dahil wala
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ka Then I'll find someone else that can
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make me happy So that's the reason why
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probably I cheated a lot with my past
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relationship the biggest regret siguro
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na masasabi ko i found this girl na
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iintindihin ako no matter what as long
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as hindi ko siya lolokohin and then Mas
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pinili ko pa rin yung tao na nakakasabay
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sa Trip ko lang dahil parehas lang kami
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ng trip I regret it and i f it as a
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lesson as well I don't regret na ginawa
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ko siya ginusto ko siya eh Malandi ako e
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ay ginusto ko siya I feel Sorry Syempre
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I mean people will say na you're Sorry
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buse you got cau well totoo Kasi nandon
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pa rin yung may sinaktang ng tao may
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natapakan tang tao e now why not just
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leave him na lang and then d with him I
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was cheated on I know the feeling as
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well and then I I I know the pain I
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inflicted on the other person proud ako
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Yes I cheated that was me before pero
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for me I don't regret What happened kasi
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it led me to know what I really want in
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a relationship it led me to know who
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what I really am After my relationship
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with her honestly I can find anyone that
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has the very same support that she was
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giving me and the same understanding if
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I will get to choose right now kung ano
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yung ang kailangan ko sa tabi ko ngayon
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especially with Uh all this Crisis that
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I'm encountering with my life simula non
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hanggang ngayon siya pa rin talaga Iyung
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best person I will never meet anyone
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like her anymore in my lifetime ano
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worth it ba siya na nasaktan ko siya
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siguro we're both happy eh Siguro kung
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hindi siya happy ngayon baka kasi kung
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hindi nangyari yung mga nangyaring yon I
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Might Be still with him I might still be
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emotionally abused we're stuck in that
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Look na un toxic kung hindi nangyari yun
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Hindi kami nasaktan hindi namin makikita
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yung happiness No because that's being
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selfish and I was that person I was
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really selfish Uh puro sarili ko lang
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iniisip ko honestly I think hindi man
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lang hindi ko man lang naisip na Paano
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naman siya paano naman yyung partner ko
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si vave He is a very kind and gentle
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person he doesn't deserve to feel that
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pain na naramdaman ko at the point namin
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ni Babe nung mga 8 years na kamin
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sobrang tagal na naiisip ko this person
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doesn't deserve it so He is the reason
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why I don't cheat anymore I stop doing
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what I used to do after her My
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relationships I can firmly say I never
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cheated do relationship ko I always use
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experience to Project myself that Yes I
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was like this but I'm not like that
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anymore but I'm also honest with it
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because I also realized na you know your
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bad sides can can be used as a lesson
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for other people as well I'm not saying
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tama iung ginawa ko I'm not saying na
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hindi ko siya ginusto ginusto ko siya
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definitely ginusto ko siyang gawin but
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still It's mali so It was really a bad
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thing that I'm still carrying until now
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lahat sila Napatawad na ako but honestly
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yung s ko Feeling ko hindi ko pa rin
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napapatawad lagi naman nating maririnig
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na dapat faithful Tay dapat loyal tayo
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sa partner natin but we just hear that
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but we don't Actually consume what we
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hear so let's make sure that we take
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care of each other's emotion if we are
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in a relationship It's very
