Singles and Couples Give Advice on Making A Move #DareToGetCloser | Filipino | Rec•Create
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Hi, I'm Eve Janine Valdez.
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Hi, I'm Migs Cantre.
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Hi, I'm Hale and we are boyfriend-girlfriend
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slash besties for life.
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He slid through my DMs.
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Basically, nagkakilala lang kami through Reto.
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So I was in the bar with a friend
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that I recently caught up with at that time
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and I was telling him,
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you know man, I feel like I'm missing an aspect of life.
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I could use some love.
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And he said, you know what, Hale?
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I might know someone.
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And I'm like, oh, please do.
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So I've been single for four years.
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But honestly, it's been fun.
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I have all the time to myself.
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But there are some moments that, you know,
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you would wish or you'd want someone to be there for you.
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When it comes to relationships or, you know, love in general,
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we should listen to our own heart.
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Before I met Migs, I came from a breakup too.
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But then when you get to vibe with a person,
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it just clicks ahead.
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One that's important is your intention.
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Like your intentions are clear with someone.
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And over the time,
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it's just a pretty comfy yellow couch.
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Today, you will be watching clips from Donbel's latest music video.
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And we basically just need you guys to share your insights,
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advices to guide our viewers in the natural stages
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of shooting your shot or making your move.
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So she's rushing to work.
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Pag sa simula ng Love Story MV,
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parang laging nagmamadali yung babaan.
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Dapat nga, dapat busy ka.
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Tapos doon mo mahanap yung love life mo.
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When you least expect it eh, no?
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Huwag mong isara. May dadahang pogi.
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Oh, it's the cliche.
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I met you at the elevator.
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Nakarelate ako dito sa elevator scene kasi dati naka-dorm ako.
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And may mga instances talaga na, you know, something happens.
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And kayo lang dalawa.
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Ayan, mga tinginan. Pag-press sa elevator. Nakakakilig.
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Tapos kailangan laging magkasabay.
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Laging merong chance.
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Na maghahawa kayo ng kamay.
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And of course, the fresh breath.
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It's very important.
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Best foot forward.
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I don't necessarily believe in love at first sight.
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But I do believe in ang gwapo first sight.
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I was around Makati.
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Going around, buying food.
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And I wasn't able to see where I was going because I was busy carrying all of the stuff.
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And I bumped into this really cute guy.
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Can't forget his face.
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I don't know what to do.
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Honestly, because I feel like sa Filipino culture kasi parang it's a bit weird to go up to them and be like,
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Hey, I really like you.
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Yeah, feeling ko siya si Bell sa love story namin.
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Parang nasa kanya yung tension more.
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Matagal lang kasi ako hindi nagda-date.
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So, paano nga ba ulit to?
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But I think I've learned my lesson from that time.
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I have to be more proactive if I really want to see where it goes.
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Same thing that Bell did.
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Really eye contact.
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As in, like, hey.
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Because I feel like if it's more than two seconds and nag-look back siya,
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I feel like that's my cue already.
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You know, like, those pa-mysterioso.
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Like, oh, I'm just here.
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Mind my own business.
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Tapos mag-bump kayo.
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So, parang, quote-unquote, natural yung pag-bump niyo.
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But not too obvious where it's like, I actually want you.
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I actually like you.
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When I would have a rehearsal for a gig and I would practice on my own, I would let her watch.
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Tsaka big thing talaga yung sa school, eh.
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Kasi yun yung parang great chance namin para mag-meet.
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Kasi magkalayo talaga kami.
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Fairview, tapos antipolo.
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Para elevator niya yung school.
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USD is the elevator.
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Parang ako yung kinikilig para sa kanya.
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I like how it just turned into like an indie film.
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Is that for real?
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Ayan yung mga, ano, delusional moments.
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Wala pang high-high, eh, na holding hands na kagal.
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Hindi ganyan sa totoong buhay.
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They really have nice teeth, huh?
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Ay, nadalulu lang siya. Okay.
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Oh, she was dalulu.
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I would relate kay Belle kasi, you know, may pagka-dalulu talaga yung mga generation namin ngayon.
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It's normal too when you have someone you're interested in, especially romantically.
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Actually, kapag nasa hallway, lagi akong tumatanaw.
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Nagbabakasakali ako nga, baka nandun siya.
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Uy, oh my God, you're here!
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Aalokin niya ako mag-coffee or would I have dinners?
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Like, I imagine like this whole life we have ahead of us.
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Even if we just met for like five minutes or so.
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One thing that I did imagine was you attending my cheer dance competition.
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Kasi like, I don't really know the feeling of someone cheering for you genuinely.
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When you're really attracted to somebody, you try to imagine scenarios that will make you feel good.
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Na parang, no harm done. It's not like anyone got hurt.
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You're just thinking of your crush, thinking of a cute bonding.
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Personally, I feel like people daydream because it's sort of this thing that we use to cope with our everyday lives.
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But then I always get struck with reality and it's just sad.
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Kaya I feel like most of the time, kasi I'm quite impatient.
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Yung makakatiis, feel ko, I'm just gonna talk to him.
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It's not like desperate, but it's a way of living in this illusion that will eventually become reality.
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I mean, people call it the lulu. I call it manifesting.
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Comfortable pajamas.
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Vigorous brushing.
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Nag-toothbrush ka ba noon?
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Parang late na rin ito kay Bell kasi nagko-practice din ako sa harap ng mirror.
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Be honest, have you ever practiced?
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No, I think you did, right?
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Like, how do I project myself?
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I got the confidence boost when you meet someone like that.
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Like, you make sure you're at your best.
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Hindi ko nga ako yun.
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Tapos usog ako sa tabi niya.
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So, she's just waiting for boy wonder to arrive.
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Ano ba ang innovator niya?
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Now, she's actually expecting him.
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About to get in the elevator, but...
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Diba kanina medyo...
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Ngayon, ano na siya, fresh.
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Wait, eto na naman tayo sa holding hands eh.
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Uy, ba't may ipaki?
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Oh, she's such a mood.
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I really hate so hard.
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I was like that, sometimes I'm like that.
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Come on, don't call her that.
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But, sobrang relate.
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Like, the prepping, nagchecheck, kung parang...
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Kasi baka makasalubong ko.
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Yeah, syempre. Kasi, diba, let's not kid around.
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Kailangan yung pagkatingin niya palang,
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Yes, I like her. Ganon.
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First time I met her, I went to the gym.
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China looked pumped.
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Mas nagiging kikay ka.
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And for the retouch and everything.
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Number one, I smell good.
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Like, whether it's my cologne or my breath.
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And, lagi akong may dala na toothbrush.
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Toothpaste dito sa bag ko.
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Kasi, you'll never really know, eh.
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It's always the minute details that speak the loudest
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and actively contribute to how people perceive your character.
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Like, I really am fluffing myself up.
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Because I wanna look in the mirror and siya parang,
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I like that girl.
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So, kapag nakaayos ka, parang hindi ka na super self-conscious
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pagkaharap mo yung tao, eh.
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It's a non-verbal first move.
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Pagaya nung kay Don Bell sa commercial.
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Sobrang lapit nila together.
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And if you say even hi,
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tapos pangit yung breath mo,
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baka mas, you know, ma-push away yung crush.
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Kahit super ganda or pogi,
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pag nakita mo in person,
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tapos may off sa kanila,
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alam mo eh, siya parang magta-turn off ka rin.
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Parang once pa lang naman siya nangyari.
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In fairness, ano siya, ha? May face.
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And he's more eno.
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But then, like, when we're so near together,
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parang I just can't.
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It's all about first impressions.
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I mean, people, I think they forget that first impressions matter.
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Siya na yung nag-ayos ngayon.
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I worry about her hand.
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Risking her hand like that, it's okay.
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If you're that daring.
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I'm rooting for you, sis.
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Bakit di tayo nagka-moment ng ganyan sa BG Pop?
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Ang ganda na ng glow up kasi nung una,
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parang haggard pa sila both.
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Ngayon, parang prepared na sila to, you know.
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Sinasabing nga ni Don.
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Ay, it's us against the world ang atake pala.
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Sigsigan sa elevator.
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Di mag-holding hands, no?
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Sana mangyari din sa akin.
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May elevators naman ata sa bago kong school.
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Buti para sa kanya, naging okay.
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Holding hands sa elevator lang si Kip.
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That's actually one of the things that leads up to
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the defining moment, no?
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If you want something and you actually get it,
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you get it, right?
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Kasi yung unang date namin, medyo pakipot muna.
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Pero hinawakan niya agad yung kamay ko nun.
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Kasi hindi ako sanay.
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Hindi ako sanay na ganun ka-confident yung guy.
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Kasi di ba usually yung guys nowadays,
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minsan sila yung mas pa-bebe kaysa sa babae.
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Girls and boys, take note.
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I was the one who asked for us to be together.
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So guys, shoot your shot.
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Actually, factor din dun.
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Yung parang nauubos na kami ng mapag-usapan.
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So ako medyo panik na ako.
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Wala, paano kaya to?
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Sige na nga, I shoot my shot na lang.
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Tapos syempre, ako as a Gen Z,
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nag-picture ako, tapos sinayon ko sa friends ko.
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Yung mga relationships kasi can also happen
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out of those experiences na sobrang out of the blue.
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I genuinely believe that things will naturally happen.
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But not all things.
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Because blessings aren't just all like, you know,
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I pray for this, I want this and that.
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If you don't make a move, then it will not happen for you.
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You plan out your steps, what you're going to do.
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Like sabi nga ni Taylor Swift, you know, I'm a mastermind.
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Find out about their interests.
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I would go back to the most basic, which is sliding in their DMs.
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It works, I swear it works.
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Parang, oh, I like this series too.
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Parang, aya ako din.
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It doesn't hurt to be brave.
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You push as much as you can para makuha mo talaga yung gusto mo.
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For my case, it's you.
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You really just need to be sure of what you want
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so that you don't get lost in the dating scene.
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My advice would be you have to first love yourself.
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Look after how you feel internally because sometimes it ends up reflecting on the outside.
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Kapag nakalimutan mong mag-toothbrush, bumalik ka sa bahay niyo.
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Wala akong pakialam kung malayo ka na.
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Again, love translates into a lot of things.
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One of those things is being confident.
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One of those things is actually shooting your shot.
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Thank you guys so much for everything.
