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ika nga, nakahighlight ang buhok mo, tapos may sasakyan ka, may bahay ka.
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So, again, walang problema kung meron ka ng lahat ng mga yun.
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Pero ito yung na-realize ko sa buhay.
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What's more important, it's not only what you represent on the outside,
00:44.9
what's more important is what you represent in the inside.
00:49.8
Nag-a-agree ka ba?
00:51.0
Pag-type agree in the comment section if you agree.
00:53.5
Alam mo, ako naniniwala ko mas importante yung substance, yung pagkatao mo.
00:57.9
Yung inner qualities ng isang tao.
01:00.4
That is the only time if you can really assess if a person is really a success.
01:07.4
So, I want you to evaluate and assess yourself right now to determine kung meron ka bang qualities.
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Sabihin mo na talagang ikaw ay isang successful na tao.
01:18.0
So, number one, one thing that I've noticed, please type agree na lang sa comment section kung nag-a-agree kayo or disagree.
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One thing I've noticed from successful people,
01:30.4
Hindi sila nagko-complain.
01:32.1
Kasi iba yung naglalabas ka ng sama ng loob, isang beses mong sinabi.
01:37.0
Yung complaining, paulit-ulit mong sinasabi.
01:40.9
Like for example, naalala ko tuloy, may isang nagsabi,
01:44.0
Knock, knock! Who's there?
01:45.4
Tapos sabi niya, kitty, kitty who?
01:57.9
Believe in magic!
02:00.4
Nako, pilit na pilit ha.
02:02.6
Kinanta mo na yan, diba?
02:03.9
One time, natawa yung mga tao, diba?
02:05.8
Pagkatapos yan, nag-knock-knock ka ulit.
02:09.8
Tapos knock-knock, who's there?
02:11.3
Oo, inulit mo ulit.
02:12.9
Alam mo, sa totoo lang, yung first joke, pwedeng matawa.
02:15.8
Second joke, hindi na.
02:17.1
Third joke, mainis na sila.
02:18.7
So, that is what complaining is all about.
02:20.7
You can express your feelings and frustration one time.
02:23.9
Pagkatapos, kung paulit-paulit na, you are already complaining.
02:27.3
Alam mo, constant.
02:27.9
It's not the complaining, only make the matters worse.
02:31.3
It will not make it better.
02:33.2
So, alam mo, ito lang ha.
02:34.4
Kung gusto mo talaga maging successful,
02:36.1
alam mo, mga successful people, they focus on solutions, not on problems.
02:40.9
That's number one.
02:42.0
Number two, yakult believe in magic!
02:45.9
Number two, successful people never brags.
02:49.6
Oo, ano itong bragging na ito?
02:51.3
Hindi nila pinagmamalaki kung ano ang kanilang achievement,
02:55.2
kung ano ang kanilang possessions,
02:57.1
kung ano yung ari-ari.
03:00.0
May nakita na ba kayong talagang super billionaire na talagang,
03:03.1
yung tunay ha, tunay ha.
03:04.4
May kasi may tunay at nagpapanggap eh.
03:06.6
Na talagang nagpapakita.
03:08.9
Karamihan na nakilala ko, ako personally kakilala ko,
03:11.7
mga billionaire silent B.
03:13.5
Hindi nagpapakita ng maraming pera,
03:15.2
hindi nagpapakita ng mga watches, wala.
03:17.4
Kung nagpapakita man kayo, trip niya yan.
03:19.5
Walang basaganto ng trip.
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Hindi ko na sinasabi tama o mali.
03:22.8
Pero yung mga tunay nakakilala kong billionaire ganito,
03:26.6
You don't wanna know why?
03:27.9
Because they allow actions speak louder than words.
03:32.0
O, secure sila eh.
03:34.9
Oo, yung mga successful people,
03:38.2
Hindi sila judgmental.
03:40.9
Parang sa kanila, di ba?
03:42.6
Pag may nakikita sila yung parang may ibang tao
03:45.7
na talagang nagiging successful,
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okay lang sa kanila.
03:49.3
Di ba? Hindi nila judge.
03:50.4
Ay, nako, sinerte lang yan.
03:52.3
Di ba? Parang sa kanila,
03:53.4
na-intindihan nila kung ano yung pinagdadaanan ng tao.
03:56.9
Kung may pinagdadaanan.
03:57.9
O, na sila, nagkamali sila.
03:59.3
O, sabi ko niya na mainit ang ulo ng isang tao.
04:01.1
Ay, nako, siguro mainit lang ang ulo niya
04:02.9
dahil may nangyari.
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Hindi nila huhusgahan ng isang tao.
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Pag hinusgahan mo ng isang tao,
04:09.2
nagkakaroon ka ng tinatawag na pre-judgment sa isang tao.
04:12.7
Kaya kahit anong gawin ng taong yan,
04:14.5
parang feeling mo wala ng pag-asa.
04:17.1
ikaw ba hindi nagkakamali?
04:18.6
Nagkakamali ka rin.
04:19.3
Di ba? Gusto mo bang ma-judge ka ng ibang tao?
04:21.4
Gusto mo rin mabigyan ka ng pagkakataon na
04:23.7
kung ikaw ay magbabago.
04:25.9
Paano na yung mga taong ayaw magbago?
04:28.1
Iba yung sitwasyon na yun.
04:29.3
Pero kung ito sa tao ay humingi ng tawad
04:31.2
at gusto magbago,
04:32.2
huwag nating husgahan.
04:34.8
Reality, di ba nakasulat sa Bible,
04:36.7
Let the man who had no sin cast the first stone.
04:39.1
Kung sino man sa ating walang sala ang unang pumukul,
04:41.7
eh lahat naman tayo nagkakamali.
04:43.2
Lahat tayo nagkakasala.
04:44.5
Kaya nga, pag tayo po ay naging mas maunawaan po natin
04:49.3
kung saan po nang gagaling,
04:51.4
kaya pala siya ganyan.
04:53.5
Oo, kaya pala siya ganyan.
04:55.6
At naalala ko tuloy,
04:57.1
may nakita kong isang image ng isang babaeng kinasal
05:00.0
na umiiyak dahil kulang yung handa.
05:03.0
Simple yung handa.
05:03.9
Handa niya kamote, pansit, kanin.
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Dahil lang sa handa niya, umiiyak.
05:09.5
Nakita mo sa picture.
05:10.4
Nagiging judgmental na tayo.
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Grabe naman itong babaeng to.
05:13.1
Buti nga, kinasal na siya.
05:15.0
Na hindi natin alam,
05:16.2
yung storya pa lang yan,
05:17.3
yung storya pa lang yan,
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kung bakit siya umiiyak.
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Hindi dahil sa handa na simple.
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Dahil nga, labing dalawang taon siya naghintay
05:24.5
bago siya pinakasalan.
05:26.0
So, sobrang saya niya,
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kaya siya umiiyak.
05:29.0
So, pag pinatinignan mo lang yung picture at image,
05:32.0
ay, naku, masyado namang ano to.
05:35.9
Buti nga, kinasal siya.
05:38.3
O, ito, number four.
05:39.4
Successful people never talk excessively.
05:44.1
less talk, less mistake.
05:45.7
More talk, more mistake.
05:47.3
Ang mga matatagumpay na tao,
05:48.7
yun ang nakita ko,
05:50.2
natutunan ko kay Mr. Francis Kong,
05:53.4
Pag nagsasalita ka,
05:54.3
pagsasalitain ka,
05:55.3
makikinig talaga siya.
05:56.7
Hindi ka i-interrupt in the middle.
05:59.0
at sandali lang, sandali lang.
06:01.7
Ang ginagawa niya,
06:03.2
pilit niyang inuunawa
06:05.1
kung saan ka nagsisimula,
06:06.9
saan ka nanggagaling.
06:10.8
ang kanilang opinion
06:15.1
Kasi sa totoo lang,
06:16.2
kung hindi mo alam yung tamang input,
06:18.1
mali rin yung iyong output.
06:22.4
if you want to become successful,
06:27.6
ang mga successful people,
06:29.4
they don't blame others.
06:31.1
Hindi sila pinapasa ang sisi sa ibang tao.
06:34.2
Dahil ako nakita ko,
06:35.8
yung mga successful people,
06:37.2
they take responsibility.
06:39.2
May kakilala kayo yung mga nagkamali na,
06:41.2
imbis na aminin pagkakamali,
06:42.8
sinasabi hindi sila mali.
06:44.3
Yan ang natutunan ko sa buhay.
06:48.1
nag-improve naman ang buhay ko.
06:50.3
ganitong mindset ko.
06:52.1
Eh, kasi traffic eh.
06:53.1
Bakit di mo patapos ang trabaho?
06:54.2
Ang dami kong ginagawa eh.
06:57.8
so hindi ko sinasabi,
06:59.1
nagkamali kasi ako,
07:00.2
late ako nagising,
07:01.1
kasi nga traffic,
07:02.4
si senior traffic,
07:04.3
Hindi dahil ang date,
07:05.9
O ba't di ko natatapos ang trabaho ko,
07:07.5
yung assignment ko?
07:08.5
Eh, kasi ang dami kong ginagawa eh.
07:10.1
Kung di nyo ako binibigay na maraming ginagawa,
07:14.0
na napuyat ka sa kakapanood ng Netflix,
07:16.5
kaya hindi mo natapos ang trabaho mo.
07:18.1
So, in other words,
07:19.8
imbis na akuin natin ang responsibilidad,
07:22.5
pinapasa natin sa iba,
07:23.7
at sinisisi pa natin iba.
07:25.7
Ito lang sabihin ko po sa inyo,
07:27.5
ang tunay na matatagumpay na tao,
07:29.9
pag sila po ay nagkamali,
07:33.8
tapos they take full responsibility,
07:36.0
they make no excuses,
07:38.0
even in tough and challenging times.
07:41.2
Doon mo malalaman kung talagang
07:43.1
tunay na matagumpay ang isang tao.
07:47.5
ang isang tunay na matagumpay na tao
07:49.2
ang na-realize ko,
07:51.0
hindi sila mahilig makipag-debate.
07:55.0
Hindi sila mahilig pumasok sa argument.
08:00.4
Eh, kasi para sa kanila,
08:02.1
wala silang dapat patunayan sa iba.
08:04.9
If you always need to prove yourself
08:07.2
and validate yourself to others,
08:10.4
you are not realistic.
08:11.2
You are not really successful.
08:12.0
If you have to really,
08:13.3
parang defend yourself,
08:15.6
sinasabi nila na hindi totoo,
08:18.3
you are not successful.
08:19.6
A successful people,
08:22.6
Alam naman nila kung ano na achievement nila,
08:24.6
kung ano na gawa nila,
08:25.5
kahit ano sabihin ng ibang tao,
08:26.8
pag alam nilang hindi totoo,
08:28.3
hindi nila papatulan yan.
08:30.0
Kung may mga tao na talagang mahilig na sumagot,
08:33.4
eh, ibig sabihin,
08:34.4
iba po ang pagkatao nila.
08:35.9
And last but not the least,
08:37.6
ang isang taong matagumpay,
08:40.1
parating nagsasabi ng totoo
08:42.3
at hindi sila komportable
08:44.1
kung sila ay magsisinungaling.
08:46.8
they feel uncomfortable.
08:48.0
They know that it is not right.
08:50.9
is the cornerstone of their life.
08:53.5
Cornerstone of trust.
08:55.4
They prioritize truthfulness.
08:57.9
Nagsasabi sila ng totoo
08:59.2
kahit napakahirap.
09:01.0
Hindi sila sumasagot na,
09:02.8
nakalimutan ko na,
09:04.3
at di rin sila sumasagot na,
09:07.5
at di ko maalala.
09:08.8
Hindi sila sumasagot,
09:10.1
parating ang sagot nila,
09:13.6
Kasi alam po nila
09:14.6
na pag tayo po ay nagsinungaling,
09:17.7
ito po ay nakakabawas
09:19.0
ng tiwala sa ibang tao
09:20.6
at ng integridad ng ibang tao.
09:23.0
Whether we like it or not.
09:25.1
The foundation of relationship is trust.
09:28.3
When there's broken trust,
09:29.6
broken relationship.
09:31.1
Kaya kung gusto mo maging matagumpay na tao,
09:33.8
ito yung tanong ko po sa inyo,
09:35.5
ginagawa mo ba itong pito na ito?
09:41.4
They avoid complain.
09:45.4
they never judge others or judge mental.
09:48.9
they don't talk excessively.
09:51.8
they don't blame others.
09:54.3
they don't engage in arguments.
09:57.0
And then number seven,
09:58.4
they refuse to lie.
10:01.1
Ayaw nila magsinungaling.
10:02.6
If I just describe your situation na
10:04.9
ikaw ay masyado kang thankful and grateful,
10:08.6
hindi ka mapaghusga,
10:10.1
tapos madalas ka narkikinig kesa nagsasalita,
10:14.0
you take responsibility pag nagkamali ka,
10:18.1
pag may mga away, may mga gulo, hindi ka sumasawsaw,
10:21.1
at yun nga, ayaw mo talaga magsinulong,
10:25.1
Ibig sabihin, kapatid,
10:27.1
you are already a successful person or if not,
10:30.1
you are on your way to become a successful person.
10:33.1
Pero pag ikaw, guilty ka sa lahat ng sinasabi ko,
10:36.1
ibig sabihin, it's up to you.
10:39.1
Kung kailangan mo,
10:40.1
kailangan mo naman at gusto mo na talaga magbago,
10:42.1
kaya nga, I want you to evaluate and assess yourself right now
10:45.1
from one to seven.
10:47.1
Ano ang score mo dito?
10:50.1
Kung mataas ang score mo,
10:52.1
nagkocomplain ka,
10:55.1
madalas ka magsitra,
10:57.1
gusto mo makipag-argue,
10:58.1
tapos nagsisinungaling ka,
11:01.1
you need to improve.
11:03.1
Ang goal natin is to become less of all of this
11:07.1
rather than more of all of this.
11:09.1
Sana naman nakatulong itong episode na ito.
11:11.1
Kung nakatulong po,
11:12.1
type nakatulong at nagising ang iyong damdamin
11:15.1
at hanapin nyo yung mga taong ganito.
11:18.1
Yung talagang matututunan nyo na talagang humble,
11:22.1
hindi mareklamo at hindi judgment at maraming pang iba.
11:26.1
Maraming salamat.
11:27.1
Tatandaan, tamang karunungan,
11:28.1
tamang disiplina po ang susi sa pagyaman.
11:39.1
Thank you for watching!
