Ano ang totoong ibig sabhi ni Mariel Padilla ng pagiging SUBMISSIVE kay Robin Padilla
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nila and you know it's a very
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interesting topic ah na pag-usapan for
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today video kasi of course kayo diyan in
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a relationship kayo and ah of course
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when you say submissive It's a very ah
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Well it's not a very positive word pagka
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babae yung pinag-uusapan natin kasi nga
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right now Especially if you are a gency
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or if you are a younger if you are a
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younger millennial you would understand
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the concept of women empowerment pero I
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would like us to Uh talk about this in a
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deeper manner kumbaga ide-deport
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pero I Still Believe call me old fashion
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but the girl should be submissive to the
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husband All right I really really
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believe in that I also Believe na babae
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ang nagdadala ng marriage babae Okay so
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Okay na yyun for our context now sinabi
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niya kasi na submissive siya now I was
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analyzing the word submissive kasi when
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you say submissive wala kang opinyon sa
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kahit anong bagay pag sinabi ng asawa mo
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anong ulam tapos ah ang ulam natin ay
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Hindi ka pwedeng mag-request ng ibang
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ulam Kasi nga submissive ka eh I guess
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hindi yun yung ibig sabihin ni Mariel
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Kasi nga may qualifier siya or meron
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siyang Ah doon sa pagiging submissive
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dito however she asserted that the women
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are the one who carry the relationship
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ito i requote ko ha I also Believe na
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babae ang magdadala ng marriage babae
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ang magdadala ng relationship so I can
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never really be pantay Okay so ah I I I
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guess ang Ibig niyang sabihin sa
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ah submissive is more Parang mas
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compliant ka or mas agreeable ka doon sa
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na when when the asawa needs something
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kung kunyari gustong-gusto niya Iyung
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minudo ngayon you are going to comply
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doon pero ah on a regular day naman kung
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gusto ng asawa mo ng ah ng dinuguan Okay
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lang di ba or kung gusto mong mag
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Jollibee ayaw mo n menudo pwede so I
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guess It's more of a Uh being compliant
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kasi or being agreeable with the husband
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not necessarily being submissive okay I
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guess kailangan ibahin anan ni Mariel
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kasi nga parang pangit yyung connotation
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when ah when you are heard by ah younger
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millennials and genes kasi nga yung
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genis kasi namulat sila doon sa women
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empowerment di ba and of course iyung
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mga younger millennials such as myself
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ah we are also aware of this concept of
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Uh of women empowerment and also if you
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our one iyung mga lawyers namin kasi was
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explaining to us the other day Iyung
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concept of social justice sa ating
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constitution ine-explain nila sa amin na
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those who have less in life have more in
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law hal bawa yung mga kababayan natin na
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ah nasa laylayan ng lipunan they are
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meron silang for pce they have more
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protection ah they are accepted from tax
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' ba mas marami silang Mas marami silang
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protection from the law and ah women are
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we as in tayong mga lalaki mas malakas
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tayo sa babae by our nature alone ' ba
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that is our ah that is our phys
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physiologically speaking so our laws are
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created to protect women ' ba or there
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are certain laws that protects our women
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from potential danger from men like
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itong Magna karta for women and Iyung
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Vine so with that virtue Siguro nga
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hindi pantay ang babae't lalaki dahil
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may extra protection ang babae ah given
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yyung ating batas but ah my point here
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mga kamatis mga kaibigan is that Ah
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please refrain from using words that
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will subjugate someone ' ba kasi nga
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when you say submissive parang hindi ka
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pwedeng um opinyon pero hindi naman yun
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yung ibig sabihin ni Mariel pero ang
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akin lang talaga first lady siya ng
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isang senador ah she should be more ah
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be more Uh use more powerful words kasi
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nga ah when you well well when you speak
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in public yung yung mga words are always
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scrutinized by many many people and it
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could be misconstrued na isa kang
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mahinang babae because of your words
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pero kasi with deeper inspection kasi
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dito sa kanyang sinabi hindi naman yun
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yyung Ibig niyang sabihin I guess ang
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mas okay sa kanya ang mas okay na
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framing nitong pagsasalita niya is that
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Ah mapagbigay ako sa asawa ko ' ba mas
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Kasi love ko siya kaya pag in hit siya I
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say yes okay lang yun baka stress lang
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mas okay yung ganun eh Ah saying na
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submissive ka ah especially to younger
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women Who idolized you baka magkaroon
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sila ng ibang implication doon sa sinabi
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mo ako Ano ako diyan e Ah talagang
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nakikita ko talaga yan eh Sometimes When
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I use the incorrect words to explain an
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idea or to explain an or to to argue
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with someone talagang ah Minsan natt
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yung sinasabi ko so I guess ah ako nung
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binabasa ko naman to and then nung
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Pinakinggan ko si Mariel na-gets ko yung
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kasi essentially pinaghahalo niya yung
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idea of being submissive and yung yung
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babae bilang ah Ano ba yung Ilaw ng
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tahanan or haligi ng tahanan Alam ko
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Ilaw ng tahanan yung sa kulturang
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Pilipino eh kasi nga ung ah Filipino
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family Ang sentro niyan is yung nanay
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the nanay will carry the relationship Or
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will carry the family ibig sabihin ah
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yung yyung ah Iyung homemaking sa nanay
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yan yung ah numero unong disiplina sa
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anak sa mga anak sa nanay yan and of
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course ah kung sino ba yung nagluluwal
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nung bata sa nanay pa rin yan kaya siya
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yung Ilaw ng tahanan without the nanay
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walang ah w ah Hindi ah more chaotic ang
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isang pamilya kaya siya yung Ilaw ng
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tahanan I guess yyun Iyung ibig sabihin
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niya that carry the relationship now I
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just want her to frame it correctly kasi
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nga she have she has a massive audience
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and ako mas mas maa-appreciate ko if she
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use stronger words to
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Uh to improve her position kasi Okay
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naman yung sinabi niya e Sa tingin ko
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naman kung ah kung
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kung papakinggan mo yung yung puso nung
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sinasabi niya makikita mo yung pagka
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Ilaw ng tahanan pero sana lang kasi
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naman yung asawa niya ang kulit din e
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maok din e pero you know it is what it
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is Sabi nga nila ah good luck po kay
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senator Robin Padilla kahit hindi ko
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gusto yung pulitika niya and kay ma'am
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Mariel Yun lang naman yung sa akin for
